There’s a priority, a holy order, a hierarchy. We need to be concerned about our relationship with God, our relationship with our family, with our friends, and with our professional responsibilities.
It’s possible we can focus on things in a disordered fashion, spending our “love” on professional matters, or our friends, at the expense of our families.
This is why we need to develop and maintain a lively spiritual life, an interior life, with God. To help us keep matters on track and in their right holy order.
I think you understand now.