Close to Sin...is it a sin

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Hi everyone,

Quick question. If you are watching something that is innocent, not pornography, but you get tempted to sin, don’t commit a sin, but you keep watching it even though you are tempted, should that be confessed?

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-J
 
If the temptation goes away once you notice it and reject it and doesn’t come back I don’t think it’s sinful to keep watching.
If you continue to watch despite the temptation not going away or you indulge the temptation mentally that is wrong. That is flirting with the near occasion of sin. satan loves that.
 
It depends. Is the temptation extremely mild, so that there is little danger that you will actually give in to the temptation? And have you watched such things before, felt some small temptation, and easily overcome it?

Or is it strong, so that there is a great likelihood you will give in? Do you know from experience that watching such things generally causes you to sin?

If the latter is the case, this is a near occasion of sin, and must be avoided. If it is a near occasion of mortal sin, deliberately putting yourself in that near occasion is also a mortal sin.

If the the former is the case, it is probably a remote occasion of sin, and venial, not mortal. These should certainly be avoided–don’t trivialize these, trust me!–but do not constitute grave matter.

I noticed that you are part of the OCD/Scrupulosity group on this forum (so am I, actually). I would definitely caution you to talk to a trusted confessor and ask him to help you determine whether a situation truly is a near occasion or not. During my most severe periods of scrupulosity, I was convinced that many situations were near occasions of mortal sin for me, when in fact they were not sinful at all. I don’t know if this is the case for you, but while you need to make sure you *never *put yourself in a true near occasion of sin, don’t go around labeling everything as “near occasions!”

I hope this helped!
 
One more thing…
I just visited your profile, and noticed that “Golden Girls” is one of your favorite TV shows. To be totally frank with you, I really wouldn’t recommend shows like that–shows where much of the content is truly immoral and could easily become a temptation. It would probably be wise to also talk to your confessor about the shows and movies you watch, to determine which are truly innocent, and which could be quite dangerous.
Please do be careful, though, not to aggravate your scrupulosity! Don’t try and make these decisions and judgments entirely on your own–do talk to a priest!
 
You can go to bed with peace on your mind. If you don’t do anything,and I think I know what you are thinking about with this question,you have not,and hopefully wont,commit a sin. God bless.
 
One more thing…
I just visited your profile, and noticed that “Golden Girls” is one of your favorite TV shows. To be totally frank with you, I really wouldn’t recommend shows like that–shows where much of the content is truly immoral and could easily become a temptation. It would probably be wise to also talk to your confessor about the shows and movies you watch, to determine which are truly innocent, and which could be quite dangerous.
Please do be careful, though, not to aggravate your scrupulosity! Don’t try and make these decisions and judgments entirely on your own–do talk to a priest!
I don’t watch that anymore, but I do try and be careful as to what I watch…because if it’s too raunchy it brings me to a bad place. I normally tend to fast forward bad parts and stuff. I try and stick with older movies (there were high standards as to what you could/couldn’t show and plus those are better anyways) and just family oriented TV programs.

-Jeanne
 
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