Is this an official teaching of the church? Can someone please enlighten me on this one. My non-denominational friend mentioned this because he saw a documentary about our Lady’s apparitions and predictably got shocked when he heard this term. How can i explain this?
The problem is that those titles are misleading about what the Catholic Church is getting at.
People hear “co” and think equality, but that is where the error is.
While I’m not attaching official percentages here, as a crude example you should first think of it as Mary 1% and Jesus 99%. Now what is this “1%”? It is the most important thing a creature could ever do for our salvation: Give Jesus His body!
When Mary said “Yes” to that, She co-operated in our redemption like no other creature ever could. Now drop the percentages and realize that while no creature could compare with Jesus’ infinitely valuable work, the Blessed Virgin still played a extremely crucial part. That is the essence of co-redemptrix as I understand it, and while it might not be official, you still must see some element of truth in it or else Jesus’ humanity becomes an ‘extra’ rather than an essential.
Co-Mediatrix is a bit more open to controversy, but it basically means Jesus never denies the requests of His Mother, be it when She brought our Lord to visit Elizabeth, at the Wedding of Cana, or Heavenly Intercession. Also, since Jesus gave Her to us (the whole Church) at the Cross, She in a true sense ours and thus mediates/interceeds for all her children (Rev 12:17).
I believe the Church should hold off making such titles official, because in this time in history Catholics as a whole are too uninformed to properly understand and explain such things. I believe and am hopeful that Catholics as a whole are starting to learn their faith again and in a generation or so we will see the flip side of what we see today.