Coincidence or not?

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I had a friend I have known since school. We lost contact for a few years but then regained this contact and hit it off very well. We were pretty good friends and could talk about anything. I was the only person who congratulated here when she told me she was pregnant, everybody else was upset due to her age (19/20). Unfortunately she had a controlling abusive partner and as soon as he noticed I was male forced her to cut all contact with me. She split from him and we regained contact, but then she got back with him n again cut contact. This has happened a couple of times and I have and will always forgive her for it.

However late last week I had a dream involving her and woke up feeling quite upset due to what was lost, thought nothing of it and carried on my business. I have since had several dreams about her, unsure of what sparked them because I had not been thinking of her. Today I logged onto facebook to see a friend had posted pictures of a child I recognised to be my friends. I saw my friend was tagged in the photo which I thought was unusual due to the fact her boyfriend had hidden her account and blocked my one so I could not locate her if i tried. Turns out at the end of last week she broke up with her boyfriend and is trying to get back in touch with people.

So when she breaks up I start having strange dreams about her… Is this just a coincidence? Seems quite odd to me!

I am desperate to make contact with her as the last time she cut with me, was the day she started to show signs of an imminent miscarriage and I really want to know the outcome so do I make contact or leave it until/if she is ever ready?

Thank you for reading!
 
I can not analyze your dream. The thing to think about is 1. Do you want to be her friend concidering it may be off and on again? 2. Are you thinking this time it might be different, but by history we know it may not be any different. 3. Concider your own feelings, is an off/on relationship healthy.

I do know that sometimes dreams or word of knowlege from the Lord is so that we can pray for that person.

So definately pray about all aspects of your relationship.
 
I don’t believe in coincidences (most law enforcement personnel don’t). I firmly believe in GODincidences though.😛
 
:thumbsup:Just reach out, the decision will be hers either way. So reach out, and let her know you are there again, again and again. It’s not her fault to be involved with such a controlling partner again , again and again.
 
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