My dear friend Jennifer
God wonāt let you die before you become catholic so donāt worry. It just wonāt happen. With the forgiveness of sins itās a big subject. There are many biblical references to how we get sins forgiven. Iāll try to give you a brief outline and a link for a thorough explaination though.
There is mortal sin which kills the soul, and venial sin which wounds us but does not kill our soul. We can confess enial sins if we want and should because itāll help us fight against them and little sins lead to big ones. If we commit mortal sins we must confess them often and certainly before we receive the holy of holies which is the eucharist. We can be forgiven our mortal sins by repenting and making an act of perfect contrition directly to God without confession. But it must be perfect and to ensure there are no abuses and consequently sacrileges and so we can be sure we are forgiven the church insist we confess and repent of mortal sins to a priest in confession. This must be done at least once a year and certainly before holy communion. Where there are no priests bar every 6 mths etc the church tells the faithful to make the act of perfect contrition prior to communion so they can still go. So the church knows we donāt need onfession always. But there are other reasons we confess to a priest. It is the way Jesus wants us to do it firstly, when he gave the power to forgive sins to the apostles and their successors the bishops and priests ( confession has been in the church since the apostles and always will). We become much more humble when we have to tell someone our sins and humility is needed in the fight against sin. Itās a deterent agaist sin if we have to front up at confession for many too. We should hoose one priest for confession and as he gets to know us he can give spiritual advice to help us overcome our sins we struggle with and help us in our spiritual life. People go to counselling all the time, this is not so necessary if we unburden ourselves in confession often- itās very therapeutic. God knows we need to hear words of forgiveness when we unburden ourselves of our sins and we get this in confession ( we perceive all through our senses and God makes sure we use our senses always so we have tangible signs of what is invisible such as the forgiveness of sins in confession ). We must remember that the priest has the power to forgive or retain our sins but God is the one we are really confessing to and He forgives us and we canāt fool God. So beware God is in the confessional. We can go to confession often, even weekly, if we donāt have sins ecause itās a sacrament and an intimate contact with God where we recive much grace and not just forgiveness. We can go to confession as often as we want and itās free. I hope this helps dear Jennifer. Please read the link for a more biblical explaination of confession. I;m sure youāll like it dear friend.
Go to-
catholic.com/library/Confession.asp
Confession of mortal sins is vital because as the following scripture quote shows us receving the eucharist unworthily resulted in a punishment of deat by the Lord in the early church to let all know the importance of receiving the sacrament in a state of grace and worthily -
1Cor.11
23] For I received from the Lord what I also delivered to you, that the Lord Jesus on the night when he was betrayed took bread,
24] and when he had given thanks, he broke it, and said, āThis is my body which is for you. Do this in remembrance of me.ā
25] In the same way also the cup, after supper, saying, āThis cup is the new covenant in my blood. Do this, as often as you drink it, in remembrance of me.ā
26] For as often as you eat this bread and drink the cup, you proclaim the Lordās death until he comes.
27] Whoever, therefore, eats the bread or drinks the cup of the Lord in an unworthy manner will be guilty of profaning the body and blood of the Lord.
28] Let a man examine himself, and so eat of the bread and drink of the cup.
29] For any one who eats and drinks without discerning the body eats and drinks judgment upon himself.
[30] That is why many of you are weak and ill, and some have died.
31] But if we judged ourselves truly, we should not be judged.
For a good explaination of the eucharist check this out dear Jennifer -
catholic.com/library/Christ_in_the_Eucharist.asp Check it out dear Jennifer. Itāll tell you what you want to know I think.
A great book to read for a layman to understand all one needs to believe to e catholic is the catechism. You can view and search it here if you want -
scborromeo.org/ccc.htm
You can look up the defintion of catholic words in the pocket catholic dictionary too here
therealpresence.org/dictionary/adict.htm
Iāll throw in my favourite bible- the RSV version. You can read and search it here if you want -
quod.lib.umich.edu/r/rsv/
I hope this helps you dear Jennifer. And thanks for you email. Sorry I missed you last night. fell asleep and didnāt wake up. See you soon
May He Who Am bless you always:thumbsup:
John