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tom1
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It began by me reading that some guy “deleted his porn folder” and felt liberated. So I was like… why haven’t I deleted all the stuff yet? So I decided to finally delete every trace of porn and similar material from my PC or just things which made me aroused in the past. I struggled mentally before that, like I was a bit surprised that I wanted to keep it… nevertheless I knew I had to do it (or had I?). In the process I tried to not look at those, looking away or praying when it was impossible, but the whole process was a rememberance of many past sins, seeing certain names, images popped up, also shame, etc, and because the files were everywhere around the PC, I had to go through everything… I was selective about it, sometimes I slowed down and thought about horryfying it seems, or how sinful it was. But also, it automatically aroused me in a way, and I felt some temptations even, but I progressed. I was selective about it, so I checked if a folder is empty or not for example. The whole thing was a mixture of arousal, rememberance, rejection of past deeds, some shame also, and in general strange feelings.
And I kinda knew it would happen, that it would arouse me and bring memories… so when those appeared I prayed and did it in a way of rejecting it completely and finally. But I kept going… should I have stopped?
I felt like an addict that is throwing away his stash of narcotics, so it would be natural to get flashbacks, temptations in the process, to maybe do it one last time, or not waste this, and struggle to not think about it, but on the other hand, maybe I shouldn’t have deleted it, just completely forget it and never touch it again? That’s what I did previously, but this led to doubt… like why would I even keep it? But then … I don’t want to delete everything, maybe files I want to keep (because I didn’t really need any of them).
Should I confess that I agreed in a way to being unhealthily aroused, because I believed or lied to myself that the goal is noble? Because if that was sinful I would name that sin this way.
What are your thoughts? I need to be certain, and it would seem so dumb and shameful if I confessed something that maybe isn’t at all a sin. I feel like the priest at the confessional would laugh at me in a way if that’s the case. Still, even if he did, I would go there to confess to God, so it just comes down to whether it was a sin or not. I didn’t feel like it was, but doubt arised (and when doubt arises, something is usually wrong).
Thanks.
And I kinda knew it would happen, that it would arouse me and bring memories… so when those appeared I prayed and did it in a way of rejecting it completely and finally. But I kept going… should I have stopped?
I felt like an addict that is throwing away his stash of narcotics, so it would be natural to get flashbacks, temptations in the process, to maybe do it one last time, or not waste this, and struggle to not think about it, but on the other hand, maybe I shouldn’t have deleted it, just completely forget it and never touch it again? That’s what I did previously, but this led to doubt… like why would I even keep it? But then … I don’t want to delete everything, maybe files I want to keep (because I didn’t really need any of them).
Should I confess that I agreed in a way to being unhealthily aroused, because I believed or lied to myself that the goal is noble? Because if that was sinful I would name that sin this way.
What are your thoughts? I need to be certain, and it would seem so dumb and shameful if I confessed something that maybe isn’t at all a sin. I feel like the priest at the confessional would laugh at me in a way if that’s the case. Still, even if he did, I would go there to confess to God, so it just comes down to whether it was a sin or not. I didn’t feel like it was, but doubt arised (and when doubt arises, something is usually wrong).
Thanks.