Confession this Saturday

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Or it might be someone trying to pull you away from God.

It has been my experience that very frequently, the more resolute people are to encounter our Lord and work to be in communion with Him, the harder the Evil One works to distract us.

Would you consider going to the priest anyway, just to talk? And to ask for help in making this Advent season meaningful and hope-filled for you? You might not feel ready to commit to returning to the sacraments, but that doesn’t mean you can’t see a priest.

Know that our Lord loves you with all His heart, no matter what, and that the Holy Spirit is gracing you beyond measure.
My thoughts exactly.

Hail Mary, Full of Grace, the Lord is with thee.
Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.
 
Or it might be someone trying to pull you away from God.

It has been my experience that very frequently, the more resolute people are to encounter our Lord and work to be in communion with Him, the harder the Evil One works to distract us.

Would you consider going to the priest anyway, just to talk? And to ask for help in making this Advent season meaningful and hope-filled for you? You might not feel ready to commit to returning to the sacraments, but that doesn’t mean you can’t see a priest.

Know that our Lord loves you with all His heart, no matter what, and that the Holy Spirit is gracing you beyond measure.
One of my best Confessions was when I didn’t take a lot of time ahead of time to think about it. I knew once I got there and in line, ‘peer pressure’ would keep me there. I had just looked at the clock, OH, Confession time…and went.
 
Ave Maria, gratia plena, Dominus tecum; benedicta tu in mulieribus, et benedictus fructus ventris tui, Jesus. Sancta Maria, Mater Dei, ora pro nobis peccatoribus, nunc et in hora mortis nostrae. Amen
 
Something happened to make me change my mind. I’m feeling God is leading me in another direction. God bless you all.
Hello Country Gal. I’m sad for you and disappointed. You seemed resolved.

I’m going to say something and I don’t want your feelings hurt in any way, so please don’t take this personal but IT ISN"T GOD WHO IS LEADING YOU AWAY FROM A SACRAMENT THAT HEALS YOUR BROKEN RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM! Do not be fooled.

God left His Presence with us in the Sacraments. Every encounter with a Sacrament is an encounter with the living God, Jesus Christ. When we come to Him in the Sacrament of Reconciliation, He binds up our wounds and begins His Salvific work in us again, renewed. When a good Confession is made and proper absolution received, He does as the Bible says: tosses our sins behind Him as if they were dust and raises up the fallen! This is how we are healed of our brokenness.

Please, Country Gal, begin your ENCOUNTER with Jesus Christ in the form He needs you to experience Him - the Sacrament of Confession.

It has been my experience that His work continues *long after *the Sacrament is received. I cannot give you the words for it. You must experience it for yourself to get it. Don’t cheat yourself out of His help. You deserve it.

Glenda
 
Hi,
Just like to say, if the Catholic Church is appealing to you,
admit it TO GOD. And be willing to see WHAT KEEPS YOU
from taking that step, at least. Then you can be open to
WORK on that hindrance! It’ll take courage and humility,
but then God will be glorified, and so will the Church!
 
Something happened to make me change my mind. I’m feeling God is leading me in another direction. God bless you all.
I must share something. I just read your first post and immediately the thought crossed my mind…“Satan will try to divert this child of God’s from going to Confession because Confession is one thing Satan can’t stand.” Now I read this… please reconsider.
I am praying for you.

Blessings in Him,
mlz
 
Hello Country Gal. I’m sad for you and disappointed. You seemed resolved.

I’m going to say something and I don’t want your feelings hurt in any way, so please don’t take this personal but IT ISN"T GOD WHO IS LEADING YOU AWAY FROM A SACRAMENT THAT HEALS YOUR BROKEN RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM! Do not be fooled.

God left His Presence with us in the Sacraments. Every encounter with a Sacrament is an encounter with the living God, Jesus Christ. When we come to Him in the Sacrament of Reconciliation, He binds up our wounds and begins His Salvific work in us again, renewed. When a good Confession is made and proper absolution received, He does as the Bible says: tosses our sins behind Him as if they were dust and raises up the fallen! This is how we are healed of our brokenness.

Please, Country Gal, begin your ENCOUNTER with Jesus Christ in the form He needs you to experience Him - the Sacrament of Confession.

It has been my experience that His work continues *long after *the Sacrament is received. I cannot give you the words for it. You must experience it for yourself to get it. Don’t cheat yourself out of His help. You deserve it.

Glenda
This!
 
Something happened to make me change my mind. I’m feeling God is leading me in another direction. God bless you all.
As others have stated,God is not,would never lead you away from the Sacrament of Reconciliation. Please reconsider.
 
Something happened to make me change my mind. I’m feeling God is leading me in another direction. God bless you all.
Like others have said, please reconsider.

Think about it from a logical perspective. What harm could confession potentially do to you? Compare this with what good it could potentially do to you (even if you do not believe in its authenticity).

Also, remember this: One of the sure signs that you’re headed in the right direction is if you meet a lot of sudden opposition.

Frankly, the path to hell is the path of least resistance. I’m not trying to say you’re headed for hell, but I’m saying that EASY does not equal RIGHT. Go to confession just in case. Even if it had no spiritual benefits whatsoever, at the very least it’s therapeutic. It relieves guilt.

I’ll be praying for you.
 
Wow - there are some really excellent responses to Country Gal’s thread. I’m wondering why she hasn’t replied as of yet.

Glenda
 
I haven’t been back here in some time. I received a very unkind PM here, I don’t want to go into details, but I feel like this site isn’t healthy for me. I miss some things in the Catholic Church, but feel like I don’t fit in with the legalistic aspects of it.

I don’t think salvation is only for the regimented type of people, who observe the rules perfectly and I also feel like this site is very rule oriented. I think spirituality is also for free spirits, who are less rigid. I have read a lot of examples of rigidity on this site, it’s the part of the Catholic faith that doesn’t fit a type of person such as myself, I just can’t bring myself to be that strict. And I can’t convince myself that any person has ever gone to Hell for missing church.

I want to thank you all for your prayers. But, I’m thinking another expression of Christianity would probably suit me better. I’m going to seek out a supportive church that has the spirit of God vibrant in it, where people are kind and supportive, that doesn’t have so many rules that don’t make sense to me.

In a way, I’m thankful for the timing of the PM. I was so close to going back to something that had already failed me, and my family. The Catholic Church did some hurtful things to us. I know churches are filled with sinners, but something about the institutional aspect of Catholicism seems to foster an inflexibility.

So, thank you all again. God Bless
 
I am s sorry you see only rules and not the beauty of the Catholic faith. But you have my prayers to come closer to our Lord where ever you are.
My love in Christ,
mlz
 
I miss some things in the Catholic Church, but feel like I don’t fit in with the legalistic aspects of it.

I don’t think salvation is only for the regimented type of people, who observe the rules perfectly and I also feel like this site is very rule oriented. I think spirituality is also for free spirits, who are less rigid. I have read a lot of examples of rigidity on this site, it’s the part of the Catholic faith that doesn’t fit a type of person such as myself, I just can’t bring myself to be that strict. And I can’t convince myself that any person has ever gone to Hell for missing church.

I want to thank you all for your prayers. But, I’m thinking another expression of Christianity would probably suit me better. I’m going to seek out a supportive church that has the spirit of God vibrant in it, where people are kind and supportive, that doesn’t have so many rules that don’t make sense to me.

In a way, I’m thankful for the timing of the PM. I was so close to going back to something that had already failed me, and my family. The Catholic Church did some hurtful things to us. I know churches are filled with sinners, but something about the institutional aspect of Catholicism seems to foster an inflexibility.
I don’t mean to be rude, and I respect your views, but it doesn’t make a lot of sense to look for a church that suits you, or that fits your lifestyle. Rather, you should look for how you as a person can better fit the way of God.

We, as humans, shouldn’t ask what our church can do for us, but what we can do for our church.

Now I realize that maybe the Catholic Church doesn’t seem to be God’s Church, but in that case, say so.

Humans are flawed beings with flawed consciences, but the Church is not flawed. Consider who is more likely to be wrong in this case.

As always, you’re in my prayers.
 
One additional thought and I say this because I’ve been through this myself- there comes a point at which I wanted stability in my faith as I had been in and out of different churches as a Protestant having very few “rules” which I made mine as I saw fit which was part of the reason I " bounced around. My morals were fairly relative as is common today. I read a very good book by a very bright and common sense author Peter Kreft called A Refutation of Moral Relativism ( interviews with an absolution oat) it was an easy read but has a profound impact on my life. If you are a reader you this would be a helpful book for you. ( I recommend it to all my friends and many are Protestant since I’m a convert to The Catholic Church )

Love in Christ and blessings to you this Christmas,
mlz
 
We’re going to Mass tonight with my neighbors, who are very active in the Catholic Church here. He tells me that the general confession absolves and I, can and most certainly should, receive communion, and didn’t know what catechism I had been reading. I had been planning to attend a Lutheran church.

I think I probably ought to stay off this site, it’s not very encouraging. Real life people are where it’s at.
 
We’re going to Mass tonight with my neighbors, who are very active in the Catholic Church here. He tells me that the general confession absolves and I, can and most certainly should, receive communion, and didn’t know what catechism I had been reading. I had been planning to attend a Lutheran church.

I think I probably ought to stay off this site, it’s not very encouraging. Real life people are where it’s at.
Glad your neighbor has reached out to you. God bless him. And God bless you! I’ll say a prayer for you tonight.
 
We’re going to Mass tonight with my neighbors, who are very active in the Catholic Church here. He tells me that the general confession absolves and I, can and most certainly should, receive communion, and didn’t know what catechism I had been reading. I had been planning to attend a Lutheran church.

I think I probably ought to stay off this site, it’s not very encouraging. Real life people are where it’s at.
As I’ve mentioned before, God bless you on your journey, and prayers that you are led home. Merry Christmas!

Just sharing this next portion ‘for the record’ for the sake of clarification (and not directed at any one person):
Regarding General Absolution, grave necessity is required. This is from the Vatican’s website:
1483 In case of grave necessity recourse may be had to a communal celebration of reconciliation with general confession and general absolution. Grave necessity of this sort can arise when there is imminent danger of death without sufficient time for the priest or priests to hear each penitent’s confession. Grave necessity can also exist when, given the number of penitents, there are not enough confessors to hear individual confessions properly in a reasonable time*,* so that the penitents through no fa*ult of their own *would be deprived of sacramental grace or Holy Communion for a long time. In this case, for the absolution to be valid the faithful must have the intention of individually confessing their grave sins in the time required.92 The diocesan bishop is the judge of whether or not the conditions required for general absolution exist.93 A large gathering of the faithful on the occasion of major feasts or pilgrimages does not constitute a case of grave necessity.94

More information can be found here, and what is grave necessity, and what our responsibilities are:
catholicherald.com/stories/Straight-Answers-Is-General-Absolution-Allowed,6730

catholicexchange.com/confession-and-general-absolution

vatican.va/archive/ENG1104/__P3F.HTM

Us avoiding going to confession and then using ‘general absolution’ so as to avoid private confession is not grave necessity. Also, if we have committed sins and are not asking for forgiveness for them, and do not think that they are wrong, those are not forgiven.

catholicdoors.com/faq/qu27.htm#key
Q. 3. What does the following mean, “For the absolution to be valid the faithful must have the intention of individually confessing their sins in the time required?”
A. It means that when someone receives a valid general absolution, the faithful is still obligated to go to confession and to confess his sins to a priest as soon as possible. Otherwise, the general absolution received during the Sacrament of Confession is not valid. It would be as if the faithful never went to confession.

catholicism.about.com/b/2009/12/17/reader-question-reconciliation-services.htm
A general absolution, however, can only absolve us from the guilt of venial sin. If we are conscious of mortal sin, we must still seek out the Sacrament of Confession.

As for this site…sometimes we don’t always get the answers we want, and if we look, we can find someone who agrees with us and sounds authoritative. Some people here will be negative or unhelpful, but many/most will respond with at least good intentions, and more often, well researched information that is easily accessible nowadays (like the Vatican website).
 
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