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pj21stevenl
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Hi, Ive been in RCIA for the last 8 months. Last Saturday our adult class along with the high school group celebrated our Confirmation Mass outdoor with all the CA social distance protocols. When it was time to go up for the anointing by the Priest, he used a long Q tip, dipped it in a jar with the oil and used it on my forehead making the sign of The Father, The Son and Holy Spirit. I didn’t think much of it at the time. I was overwhelmed with joy and happiness to be confirmed into the Catholic Church. However couple days later I heard on the Patrick Madrid show a parent asked him that his son was Confirmed in CA in similar fashion with the Q tip and was very concerned if it was a valid Confirmation. That obviously got me sitting up cause I didn’t think anything of the sort. Again I was overwhelmed with joy and not educated in Cannon law. But what I got from the radio consversation was basically to be confirmed the Bishop or Father as long as Bishop gave him the authority to do it (which in my case we knew advanced the Parish Priest was doing it and assuming he got the ok from Bishop) and the big thing was the actual laying of hands and using THE THUMB to annoint the forehead and NOT a TOOL like a Q tip. Explained using a tool like a Q tip was ok for Anointing of the Sick but for Confirmation laying of the hands was mandatory for Confirmation. This has me tossing and turning really confused and extremely stressed out. Did I get a valid Confirmation? I went from a super high spirit, Confirmed in the Church, receiving the true Body and Blood of Jesus in my first communion to now a low of some doubt. I am embarrassed to ask my priest who annointed me all these questions. I dont want him thinking Im judging or questioning his intent or authority. I know in CA we are supet strict with regulations with COVID so I understand having to use the Q tip. Forgot to mention those Q tips were one time use for each candidate, I am assuming they were burned afterwards per doctrine. Any one else have to be confirmed like this? Am I overthinking this? I will wait till we can loosen the regulations so the Bishop or Father can lay hands on the forehead. I just want be sure my Confirmation was valid. Thanks any help would be much appreciated. Steve
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