Considering asking someone to marry me

[chevalier]

For example … does she really like me…does she just like being friends with me and thats all…if she thinks we are just friends…how would she feel if I had other girl friends, would she then think that I don’t really like her if maybe she did like me…

Hard to say. Friends can be a bit jealous too. Some friends can be a bit romantically inclined, just not really very far, so it never gets to anything serious but it does show sometimes. You never really know until a long time has passed, sometimes several years. Sometimes people can also be very blind to how close or how romantic they’re becoming with a supposedly just friend.

Or should I not worry about having other girl friends as well?

You shouldn’t worry about that unless you’d be getting into multiple romantic relationships at the same time, or leading that girl one (if she thought that you were a couple but you didn’t agree with that thinking).

I really don’t like the idea of her possibly feeling disregarded or just like any other friend.
Or should I not worry about that and let her figure out that I still do care about her?

It’s hard for me to decypher what you’re thinking there. I was about to type, “only you know that,” but I doubt you actually do. In fact, you wouldn’t be posting if you did. I guess time will show. Don’t overstress.

Well I don’t know forsure, but tomorrow we are going to go play tennis or something.
I hope it is a nice day…

Yeah and focus on that. Don’t go in with big ulterior expectations. Just take it at face value. Tennis. A nice day.

 

[AnotherSonofGod]

Thank you