Constant unsuccess in starting relationship

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I am praying every day rosary to our Lafy od Sorrows May through her most powerfull intercession I get clarity and discerment. Today I have find out something what could be related to my single status and constant unsuccess in starting relationship for marriage.

I have always wanted to give my daughter name Dorja. Everyone knows this. Dorja lived im 12th century in Croatia, and it is not common name. While I was in high school I read a novel where Dorja was main character. I liked this book. And Today I found an article about the book about Dorja and was schocked to realize that she had a lover who was bad man and who was cursing and praying to Satan. Dorja is also unbeliever, blames God and od more close to the demonic world. It is all written in this book but I was totally blind to see this, because I was mesmerized with the love story of Dorja and since than I am very close to her with my decision to give name to my daughter after Dorja. And since than I am single. I am glad that today I have became aware of the backround of this story. Could this be reason of my constant unsuccess to start relationship? As I have said before, When I meet someone, very soon this person just go away, like there is some obstacle around me.:cry:
I prayed and Will pray to be free from this influence when I was reckless and opened my heart to something bad. Please, pray for me.

May God bless you,

Marina
 
With all due respect, this whole business about your liking for a name of a character in a book being the reason you are single is superstition. The Church teaches that we are not supposed to think superstitiously.

You don’t end up single because you wanted to name your potential child (whom you might not even have) after a character out of history or out of a book. Nor do you have some demonic influence upon you because you read a novel with an unbelieving or sinful character in it.

I suggest that instead of wasting your time with silly superstitions, you look at the logical reasons why your dates haven’t resulted in a relationship. Such as: Are you dating men who are interested in marriage? Are you dating men who share your interests? Do you push them too hard for a relationship right away and scare them off? Etc.
 
I don’t think that a novel’s character can make harm on yourself.

It is sad that she was not the person that you think whe was, but you are not responsible of had loved a false character, you didn’t know about her true self before.

Just stop dreaming of her as your ghost’s sister or fantazing too much on imaginary people. Life your life.

If you think there is something very wrong around you, please go to a mental’s heath specialist.
 
Sympathies, I have the same problem. But no, you aren’t being punished for having liked a book character and wanting to name your child after her before finding out more about her.

It’s a good thing you abandoned your fascination with that character and didn’t end up naming your child after her, but no, you aren’t being punished for that.

Chances are you’re grasping at straws to find some fault in yourself that just isn’t there, in order to explain all the rejections, but the explanation, if not actually coincidence, is something different. It appears to me talking to a counsellor could help relieve some of the anxieties you’re currently dealing with. (And also prepare you for a good, rewarding relationship with a worthy man.)
 
Marriage is a vocation that any two eligible persons can enter. There is no destiny that any two particular people meet, although God may present one or more good options.

Unwittingly wanting to name a child after an unsavory historical figure is simply not relevant towards finding a marriage partner, however.
 
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