Courtship

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Does God send mates whom are not of our choosing? I met and became friends with someone in Church and the relationship became sour as soon as this person said that she believes that it is God’s will that we take this relationship to the next level.This person also has OCD(Obsessive compulsive disorder).I am not attracted to her Physically and I know that all elements must enter in in order for things to be mutual.I do not desire romance with this person and it is unlikely that I will continue a friendship with her because of this.This has been a very taxing situation for some time.Any advice is great!
 
IMHO, God doesn’t send mates, period.

And if you aren’t attracted, don’t have a relationship. That simple.
 
Good heavens, she’s pushing you into a relationship, she’s OCD, and you’re wondering why you don’t feel called into it? 😃 There are a few control issues going on… Think about it this way… who is supposed to be in control of the relationship… God, you, or her? Okay, next question, who is supposed to be the spiritual head of the marriage, you or her? Yeah, this one is one that needs some serious counseling on Christian courtship and if you are her friend you might recommend that to her before giving her the old heave ho. Seriously. Thankfully being called to single-hood the fact that not one of my male friends has ever considered me more than a buddy only occassionally makes me scratch my head, but if I thought I were called to marriage they would be doing me a favor to tell me why.
 
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