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tovlo4801
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I’m wondering if a D&C is a morally acceptable medical procedure when a woman has had a misscarriage. My understanding is that it’s essentially the same procedure as an abortion. I’ve struggled with this for over a year now. This is a personal question for me. My first pregnancy was a miscarriage. I discovered it when I started showing the physical signs of miscarriage. I was in a strange town and the doctor in the ER pressured me to have a D&C. I did not want it. It didn’t make sense to me since I was already starting the miscarriage process. But I relented and had it. I bled throughout my next pregnancy. I went into early labor and they needed to do a c-section because he was in a rare difficult birth position. They still couldn’t get him out after the regular c-section cut so they had to cut me even more to reach him. My future pregnancies then needed to be c-sections because of the weakness of this cut. My final pregnancy also was a miscarriage. In this case the baby had died over a month previous to the doctor’s visit and I was only then beginning to experience symptoms. I was advised of the dangers of a miscarried pregnancy that does not seem to be naturally aborting so I went ahead and did the D&C my doctor offered. This time though because of all the c-sections and the weakness of my uterus I began to bleed and they ultimately needed to remove my uterus to keep me alive.
After my second D&C and the loss of my fertility, I heard someone talking about the temporal consequences of abortion. They said that there is frequently damage to the uterus and future pregnancies can be difficult. I’ve been haunted with the worry that my uterus might have been damaged during the first D&C leading to the bleeding, unusual position and early labor in the pregnancy of my first living child. The circumstances of my first child’s birth ultimately led to the loss of my uterus in the final D&C.
Did I make an immoral choice in having D&C’s after I discovered my miscarriages? Did I put my future children and my fertility at risk with an immoral procedure? Or is the procedure neutral and only the intent with which it’s performed immoral?
Thank you for helping me find some answers to these questions.
God Bless
After my second D&C and the loss of my fertility, I heard someone talking about the temporal consequences of abortion. They said that there is frequently damage to the uterus and future pregnancies can be difficult. I’ve been haunted with the worry that my uterus might have been damaged during the first D&C leading to the bleeding, unusual position and early labor in the pregnancy of my first living child. The circumstances of my first child’s birth ultimately led to the loss of my uterus in the final D&C.
Did I make an immoral choice in having D&C’s after I discovered my miscarriages? Did I put my future children and my fertility at risk with an immoral procedure? Or is the procedure neutral and only the intent with which it’s performed immoral?
Thank you for helping me find some answers to these questions.
God Bless