Thank you all for your comments. I am currently the “breadwinner” and my wife stays home and cares for our three daughters (ages 3, 1.5 and 1.5). Long story short: I will be transferred in a few years to a place where I will be making less money (no more housing allowance) and things financially will get tough.
While I love my job and feel good about “being a man” by bringin’ home the bacon, I have experience in teaching and am quite good at it; in addition, my wife has quite a business acumen (which I completely lack and have no interest in trying to acquire); finally, like most homeschool parents, I am somewhat distrustful of the public school system and find myself feeling a little tug in the homeschool direction. I cannot yet discern whether this might be a “calling” but CAN already discern that I am not yet 100% comfortable with the idea of being the SAHD.
Lots of prayer coming my way!
Thank you all again for sharing your thoughts, and I’ll check out that link.