I’ve also seen the Mass on EWTN and I agree its quite reverent. This is just speculation, but I’d guess EWTN’s liturgy is a lot closer to what the Council fathers had in mind when they were drafting the reforms, rather than clown Masses and choirs using guitars and tambourines. At my TLM parish the priest is very supportive of Vatican II, but he draws a clear distinction between the documents of the Council (and how they were meant to be interpreted, in light of authentic Catholic faith and practice) and this crazy “spirit of Vatican II” that has plagued the Church for the last 40-50 years. For example, he recently reminded us during Mass that the Council fully intended for sacred music (organ, gregorian chant) and latin to be retained in the liturgy, and did not intend all the innovations we’ve seen spring up. At Ave Maria University in Naples, Florida, they even celebrate the NO in latin and the priest faces ad orientam.