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Hello to everyone
I have joined this forum because every now and then during my googling of religious questions this site seems to show up. I am not Catholic, I am Orthodox however the way I have come to understand it is that we worship the one and only God in different ways. In this day and age, I think we are better and stronger together than squabbling over practices.
Anyway, I have recently started praying maybe for like a month now. I usually pray alone in my car before work as it is the most time I have to myself and I am able to explore religion to an extent. What I find it hard to do is actually concentrate on my prayers - not because of any physical distractions like a person walking by or anything like that, I struggle more with the mental side of it.
By this I mean, for whatever reason as I am praying I might have blasphemous and unwanted thoughts in my head which I try to rebuke at the same time as I am praying. The content of the thoughts is not important, they are distracting, upsetting, and the more I tell myself to not think such things the more I do because I have just told myself not to.
I have had some really good āengagementsā of prayer where I have minimal to no intrusive and unwanted thoughts and then I have had very difficult ones where I tend to have to start the prayer from the beginning all because I didnāt like the way I pronounced a word and worrying God would be upset with my pronunciation, my appearance, my attire and if my religious bracelet was physically dirtied by germs/dirt which I cannot see.
Does anyone have any advice or a similar experience?
I tend to obsessively wash my hands and bracelet before prayer worrying about unseen germs. I worry Iām not making the sign of the cross correctly (like I push too hard on the top but not enough on the bottom side) and the possibility of offending God in my attempt to pray.
I am now 30 and have had such mental struggles since I was about 16 on and off but I always had little coping mechanisms and been able to distract myself from such guilt over the thoughts. because I know they are not from my heart so I was always able to do other things but it seems now that the guilt/frustration is hindering other parts of my life i.e late for work, mentally absent in relationships, and friendships.
I have joined this forum because every now and then during my googling of religious questions this site seems to show up. I am not Catholic, I am Orthodox however the way I have come to understand it is that we worship the one and only God in different ways. In this day and age, I think we are better and stronger together than squabbling over practices.
Anyway, I have recently started praying maybe for like a month now. I usually pray alone in my car before work as it is the most time I have to myself and I am able to explore religion to an extent. What I find it hard to do is actually concentrate on my prayers - not because of any physical distractions like a person walking by or anything like that, I struggle more with the mental side of it.
By this I mean, for whatever reason as I am praying I might have blasphemous and unwanted thoughts in my head which I try to rebuke at the same time as I am praying. The content of the thoughts is not important, they are distracting, upsetting, and the more I tell myself to not think such things the more I do because I have just told myself not to.
I have had some really good āengagementsā of prayer where I have minimal to no intrusive and unwanted thoughts and then I have had very difficult ones where I tend to have to start the prayer from the beginning all because I didnāt like the way I pronounced a word and worrying God would be upset with my pronunciation, my appearance, my attire and if my religious bracelet was physically dirtied by germs/dirt which I cannot see.
Does anyone have any advice or a similar experience?
I tend to obsessively wash my hands and bracelet before prayer worrying about unseen germs. I worry Iām not making the sign of the cross correctly (like I push too hard on the top but not enough on the bottom side) and the possibility of offending God in my attempt to pray.
I am now 30 and have had such mental struggles since I was about 16 on and off but I always had little coping mechanisms and been able to distract myself from such guilt over the thoughts. because I know they are not from my heart so I was always able to do other things but it seems now that the guilt/frustration is hindering other parts of my life i.e late for work, mentally absent in relationships, and friendships.