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CalifMomma
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My husband and I have been taking RCIA for about four months. We were both welcomed into the church two weeks ago. I am a candidate and my husband a catechumen. We are basically the only adults in our stage of RCIA and up until about two weeks ago the two of us met seperately with an instructor.
Now we meet with a very small group of teens and very young adults who will be receiving their sacraments this Easter. During Mass our group is excused after the Homily and we meet in the chapel and go over the gospel and readings from Mass. I am the only candidate in the group.
I have read that candidates may be asked to join the catechumens during the dismissal but are not required to leave if they do not wish. I really enjoy the full mass even though I obviously can’t take communion, but being able to witness a full mass is very enjoyable for me.
If I asked to stay for the full mass would that be considered rude on my part since I’ve been told I have to join the catechumens?
I don’t want to seem like I don’t want to be with the group because that is really not the case. If I am incorrect on candidates not being required to leave during the dismissal please correct me. Thanks!
Now we meet with a very small group of teens and very young adults who will be receiving their sacraments this Easter. During Mass our group is excused after the Homily and we meet in the chapel and go over the gospel and readings from Mass. I am the only candidate in the group.
I have read that candidates may be asked to join the catechumens during the dismissal but are not required to leave if they do not wish. I really enjoy the full mass even though I obviously can’t take communion, but being able to witness a full mass is very enjoyable for me.
If I asked to stay for the full mass would that be considered rude on my part since I’ve been told I have to join the catechumens?
I don’t want to seem like I don’t want to be with the group because that is really not the case. If I am incorrect on candidates not being required to leave during the dismissal please correct me. Thanks!