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BunnyLover
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Don’t confuse marriage roles with cultural traditional gender stereotypes. Your wife has every right to work. You should still both be sharing responsibilities evenly. Maybe she’s holding you to an unfair male machismo standard, and maybe you are just bitter because you are failing to fulfill what you are told a man needs to be. It’s hard to tell if you are resentful for your own feelings about yourself for not earning more money than her or if she really is disrespectful.
But it is a marriage. In a family, it is never true nor useful to say the “problem” is solely one person’s. You will need to accept that this problem is a shared one, with no blame necessarily but equal responsibility.
But it is a marriage. In a family, it is never true nor useful to say the “problem” is solely one person’s. You will need to accept that this problem is a shared one, with no blame necessarily but equal responsibility.