Gregory24:
I attended a “youth mass” tonight because I didn’t attend my normal church in the morning. I am 24 years old and converted 3 years ago and am in love with the catholic church. However I was greatly upset tonight. I walked into this 6 pm mass. And there was very loud music playing by in the front of the church. When I attempted to pray I couldn’t even hear myself think and this started things badly. The sanctuary was louder and people were talking more than I have ever seen at a church it was very distracting. Most of the people there were teenagers. I noticed they were high fiving each other and even sitting on top of the pews while talking. I couldn’t believe the lack of reverence in the presence of the eucharist. The mass was supposed to start at 6 pm however we practiced all these songs until 6:15. I noticed that they didn’t follow the music in the missal but had there own, and the profession of faith was completely different. I went to church tonight w/ my wife and sister both non-catholics and I decided to leave after the second reading. I was so upset at the lack of reverence I felt was in the church. The one thing that I love about the church since I have joined is the sameness of it. No matter where I go I get the same thing. As soon as we exited the church my sister and wife asked me what was wrong and I was overwhelmed by tears, and believe me I don’t cry very often. I can’t tell you exactly what overcame of me. But I was saddened by the whole scene tonight. On the way home I tried to explain to my sister how I believe that christ is truely present in the eucharist which is located in the tabernacle and that is why I was so disturbbed to see what I saw. I don’t know if I should have left mass or not but I did. Can anyone relate to this? What do you think? ?
I’ve seen just as much lack of reverence in my own parish, but I have to ask you if speaking in front of the taberacle is a grave disrespect, as you may see it? Is this not Christ in his body, blood, soul & divinity? The same Christ that once walked the earth & spoke with people & had people speak to him? Has Jesus somehow become so reserved that we must tip-toe about his Blessed Sacrament as not to disturb him? I’m not saying jump up & down like a loon, but come on… Jesus isn’t going to strike someone down for speaking in his presence.
You are a convert & I have a tremendous amount of respect for you, but be careful that you are not led too far to the right or left. Those super conservative right-wing catholics are just as much in error & sin as those off in left field. Jesus told us to be holy as he is holy, but he didn’t say be holy & angelic, we are still human. Humans need to live & grow & communicate with God & one another. Gathering together as the people of God is supposed to be joyous, not a boring, dreary ultra solemn occasion, despite what some people here believe. God is alive, not dead. We need to stop “going” to church as if we were going to a funeral & start living in the hope & love that Christ has given us.
As far as the sitting on pews…personally I think having pews in church are a waste of space. We should be praising God, not sitting on our fat cans, thumbing through the missal & completely forgetting that Jesus is alive in our hearts & souls. If Christ within us is not cause for joy I don’t know what is.
St. Paul said me should immitate him & be all things to all men. How can we put restrictions on the youth of our church & force them to experience God as we do? How can we ever expect to grow as a church if we take 2 steps backwards with each foot that goes forward? Forcing young people to sing the same old hymns the church sang in the dark ages is just setting another dark age in motion, & I guarantee that less & less young people will attend our church services. How do I know this? I am not only a fromer choir director, but I am also a former assistant youth director. I say the ups & downs of the youth of my parish & I’ll tell you that it was very hard to get these young people excited about our church & their relationship with God without trying to force a conservative spirituality on them. At the same time I had to remind them that the liberal views of the world had no place in the Church of God.
Rememeber, young people learn by example. Maybe the Lord is challenging you to set the good example for a few of these youngsters. Pray about it & don’t give the evil one a chance to discourage you in your walk with the Lord. God Bless.