I’ve only been in love once, but because I knew that love wasn’t God’s Will, I was in terrible suffering.
Love can be terrible torture and very heavy stone on the heart.
I am very grateful to God that I miraculously came out unscathed and not soiled by the sin of fornication.
If your love is not the Will of God then run away from it as soon as possible. Run without looking back.
( In my case, the extremely beautiful woman I fell in love with had two children, one civilian husband and the first husband who did not live with her but was married. I admired her beauty with first glance and fell in love gradually, for we worked in one office, and I saw her every day. I had to quit my job and block her phone. Now every thing is OK. My “love” or should I say “wound” has healed and I forgot it.)
But this love was the greatest suffering and tortures of my life. The tragedy was that love was mutual. This masterpiece of beauty also sought my love. but I couldn’t marry a woman who was married(crowned) to her first husband and lives with her second civil husband sometimes, has two children by different men and has no fear of God.