Do you know people who fall in love at the first date?

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“Falling in love” as an rush of emotions? Sure.

Choosing to love in a real way, that usually takes time.
 
Yes, we married 8 months later.
Still married, although we were not kids at the time.
 
I’ve only been in love once, but because I knew that love wasn’t God’s Will, I was in terrible suffering.
Love can be terrible torture and very heavy stone on the heart.
I am very grateful to God that I miraculously came out unscathed and not soiled by the sin of fornication.
If your love is not the Will of God then run away from it as soon as possible. Run without looking back.

( In my case, the extremely beautiful woman I fell in love with had two children, one civilian husband and the first husband who did not live with her but was married. I admired her beauty with first glance and fell in love gradually, for we worked in one office, and I saw her every day. I had to quit my job and block her phone. Now every thing is OK. My “love” or should I say “wound” has healed and I forgot it.)
But this love was the greatest suffering and tortures of my life. The tragedy was that love was mutual. This masterpiece of beauty also sought my love. but I couldn’t marry a woman who was married(crowned) to her first husband and lives with her second civil husband sometimes, has two children by different men and has no fear of God.
 
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“Falling in love” as an rush of emotions? Sure.

Choosing to love in a real way, that usually takes time.
You beat me to it, Little Lady.
First sight - You can fall in affection, infatuation, like, and even lust, but not love. True love comes from the heart, the mind, and the soul. That takes time, and understanding. As the LL said, love is a choice that takes time.
 
Blessings
My husband and I fell in love at first sight. Our son did the same. It may be in Lust at first sight and we stayed together. Though, in all seriousness, I was a virgin and didn’t have a picture of what happened during romance. So, it couldn’t have been lust for me… 50 yrs later w/o Pre-Cana classes. They didn’t exist.
In Christ’s love
Tweedlealice
 
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