Does one have to be “sinless” to comment on another’s sin?

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It is hard enough to avoid sin when we try to surround ourselves with the people who are trying to live a good Christian life and it becomes more difficult when we allow people into our lives, who have no interest in avoiding sin, or with obeying the law.
In the secular world, a policeman can lose his job for simply “associating" with a known felon. This is because he (the policeman) is held to a higher standard of conduct. Moreover, a person may not be granted a security clearance, based on whom he associates with, the reason for this, I believe is self-evident.

God’s standard of conduct is much higher than any created in this world and if anyone reading this doesn’t believe me, they haven’t read much of the bible or they are in denial.

Now take this one-step further, “Parents”; a parent’s job is very difficult under the best of circumstances and becomes almost untenable when we allow external negative influences, which we have control over, access to our children.

A parent’s main responsibility to their child is to protect them and teach them to know, love, respect and obey God. That’s it, that is their mission in life. When two people (by the divine will of God) bring a pure, innocence precious baby into this world, they must protect that child, in this world and keep them safe and this includes keeping their soul safe.

Kid’s are on loan to us from God and at some point in time He wants them back. Families cannot stay together in heaven if they become separated here on earth by sin.

I hate to use the “S” word, SIN, but when we don’t use it (the word sin), because it makes us feel uncomfortable, it becomes something that get’s rationalized away. Sin might go away in ones conscience but it never really goes away. That is why we must constantly remind each other.

Humility is the spark that lights the fire called guilt, guilt leads us to remorse, remorse, causes us to reconcile with our Father in heaven and it is then that we are forgiven (healed) and re-united with Him.

Parents need to help strengthen their child’s conscience; this becomes nearly impossible when there exists, others in their lives who want to undermine it.

Christians need to be honest and firm with themselves and one another. This is hard today, because so many people are so sensitive and because of inflated ego’s.

When it comes to pointing out sin, even though at times it may “hurt someone’s feelings”, we may even alienate others; it is still our responsibility to God, our Creator to point it out.

If we all waited until we were perfect and sinless to discuss sin, it would never be discussed at all.

If we truly loved our neighbor, we would all try to help each other avoid sin. Pointing out sin should never anger a Christian. Avoiding one who sins or avoiding the appearance of sin, should never anger a Christian.

If it doesn’t apply to you (in general) then good for you, if it does, change your behavior because you are messing it up for the rest of us who want to have a good life and go to heaven.

 
Does one have to be “sinless” to comment on another’s sin?

If so, we wouldn’t have much to talk about in this forum!

:rotfl:
 
You shouldn’t comment on another person’s sin as you don’t know for certain if the person has sinned. All you know is what you think you saw happen. That may not be what was really going on.

You, instead, go to confession and comment on your own sin.

Matthew
 
If that’s true it would appear there are only two people in historywho could comment on anothers sin.
 
Ooops. I said “yes” by mistake :o I meant that “yes,” one may comment, but with intent to help or advise. Priests and therapists do that…Sorry for the mistake…😦

Prayers and petitions,
Alexius:cool:
 
Does one have to be “sinless” to comment on another’s sin?

If so, we wouldn’t have much to talk about in this forum!

:rotfl:
I love it.👍 Who of us would fall under that sinless category? Noone except two humans that I haven’t found participating here yet.
 
If that’s true it would appear there are only two people in historywho could comment on anothers sin.
That reminds me of my favourite passage

Let whomever is without sin cast the first stone…MOTHER PUT DOWN THAT STONE!

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Jesus warned us to remove the plank. but we’re likewise taught that correcting the sinner is a spiritual work of mercy.

how to without being pharasetical?

prayerfully, prudently, humbly and with love.
 
I had to answer both yes and no, so I’ve cancelled myself out.😉

“Thou hypocrite, cast out first the beam in thy own eye, and then shalt thou see to cast out the mote out of thy brother’s eye.”

I believe this tells us not to be pass judgement on others for sins we ourselves are committing. However if you look a little closer, it is also saying that if we remove the beam from our own eye, we can see clearly to cast the mote (speck) out of our brother’s eye.

If I’m an alcoholic who is actively drinking every day, then I shouldn’t be correcting some other person for their drinking problem. Suppose I had an alcohol problem, and the good Lord helped me to conquer this sin. Now…at least regarding drinking…not only has the beam been removed from my eye, (by the grace of God), but I can now see clearly, and of course now, I may even be an instrument of the Lord to help others still involved in that sin, just as God put others in my path to help me conquer that sin.

Now, even though I wasn’t drinking, and could see quite clearly to point out this sin in others, in the spirit of help rather than judgement, I might still be quite deeply involved with other sins. I might be an adulterer, or thief. Someone who the Lord had helped conquer those sins may be the person God wants to use to help me acknowledge and conquer these sins now. It wouldn’t be right for someone else, who is currently cheating on their wife to point out how wrong that is to me. It would seem hipocritical and laughable. However, someone who has felt the consequence of adultery or stealing, been repentent, and has turned away from that sin, may have every right, and even duty to enlighten me and help me to overcome those tendencies with advice…not judgement.
 
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