Why would you say that they look ridiculous?
I am assuming they are in “street clothes”, but dressed in the same colors as “that of the day of celebration”.
I myself, as a reader (seven days a week) try my best to dress in the proper liturgical color. I take the time to see if it will be a Holy Day, Memorial Mass, etc. and what the color of the day should be. I then try to wear something that is the color of, or close to, that of the priest. I make sure I have read the readings (previous to the Mass), and as much as possible, understand what it is that I am reading. If there is something I don’t understand, and time permits, I ask Father to explain it to me so my own confusion doesn’t interfere with the reading.
I’m not saying that we (readers, EMHC, etc) are ‘holier than thou’, just that maybe we take the extra time to know what and why we are wearing and reading certain things at special times of the year(and even during ‘ordinary time’)
I am not an EM (and I HOPE you mean to be shortening the term of extraordinary ministers of holy communion (EMHC), not EM (Eucharistic Minister).
Netmil(name removed by moderator),
I would NEVER presume myself to be “part of the club”. BUT, I can still try to impart, through dressing in the same colors as that of the priest/day, some reverence back into theMass. Although I am (wanted to capitalize the word “am”, but realized how pretentious that would be) hoping to join a third order, I KNOW my place in the church. I will NEVER be a priest, nor want to be. But, I do hope to bring faith and reverence back to Mother Church.
To all that have read this post so far, unless it’s -40* (and it DOES get that cold here, I NEVER wear pants…dress or skirt…and I DO wear a veil!