Does this mean he doesn't like me

[cathgirl]

There’s this guy that I really like and I admire the way he talks about his faith. When I like a guy, I remember pretty much everything he tells me about himself. I notice that he hasn’t remembered every detail that I tell him about myself, it’s not to the point of being neglectful, so I might be reading into things too much, but we haven’t talked too much that there’s too much to remember if being attentive. He is very kind and we get along really well but with the age difference of him being around 7 years older when I’m only 18, we might very well just end up as friends.

 

[adamhovey1988]

7 years older when I’m only 18, we might very well just end up as friends

And if that’s what ends up happening, accept it and move on. Some people just do not have great memories, for instance, I can remember very small details of things from when I was about three or four years old, but I can’t always remember where I leave a glass of water.

 

[Tis_Bearself]

You’ve started several topics that seem to be about this guy, whom you really like but he’s 7 years older than you. I get the impression that you are really, really into this guy to the point where you seem to be thinking about him very regularly and hanging on his every word in conversation and analyzing it, etc. I’m also getting the impression that this guy, while kind and friendly to you, is not focusing on you to the same degree you’re focusing on him.

If he hasn’t asked you for a date or shown any romantic interest at this point, I would suggest you maybe just consider him a friend, unless and until he indicates that he wants to be more than that. You can still enjoy his company as a friend when you see him, but all this analysis of your interactions with this man is kind of pointless. A man who wants to be more than friends will let you know that; you won’t have to be playing guessing games or looking for clues in how many personal details he remembers about you. Some men have terrible memories, but when they like a girl in a romantic way they’ll let her know that, very directly; she won’t have to guess.

 

[0Scarlett_nidiyilii]

Uhm, nobody is required to remember every detail of what you say.

 

[Lobster_Johnson]

I forget half of what my wife tells me within an hour of hearing it. I wouldn’t read too much into it.