The whole argument about free will boils down to whether God predestines us for heaven or hell, when it’s all said and done, or whether we have some say in it.
We seem to have conflicting statements in the Bible -
Romans 9:15 NIV
"For he says to Moses, “I will have mercy on whom I have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I have compassion.”
This implies the deliberate salvation of some.
The obvious obverse of that statement, reading between the lines, is “I will not have mercy on whom I will not have mercy, and I will not have compassion on whom I will not have mercy.” This implies the deliberate damnation of some.
But then we’ve got the other side of the story -
1 Timothy 2:3 NIV
“This is good, and pleases God our Saviour, who wants all people to be saved and to come to a knowledge of the truth.”
This implies God wants none to perish, and both of these conflicting statements were penned by St. Paul.
Now this has a personal import for me. I’ve often stated that the night my own father died, he appeared in my room. During the ensuing conversation, he blurted out at one point, “I always was doomed! I didn’t really have any choice!” But later in the same event, he said “I was WILLING!” (to act in a way that doomed him).
And I don’t have any doubt he was doomed. I still remember the terrifying scream just before he disappeared again, and it was obvious something was coming for him.
I accept the maxim “God is love”, but I have a lot of trouble reconciling that statement with my father’s comment about always being doomed, viz. “I will have mercy etc.”
However his own free will came into it, as he clearly stated. He had a deliberate policy of setting out for 20 years to destroy my confidence, and treated his own family like a little tyrant. God didn’t make him do it, so it was his own choice.
If we use a human family as some sort of pointer, then ***good parents ***would want the best for their children - good health, good upbringing, and most of all, the ability to make good and right choices.
But despite the most favourable of family backgrounds, some children destroy themselves with bad relationships, bad choices, bad habits eg. taking drugs, gang membership and so on.
And quite often the parents can only watch broken hearted knowing full well what the probable outcome is going to be. Their will is that their children be “saved” so to speak, but the fact is that some of their children may well destroy themselves, by their own choice.
My old pastor told a story about a man he knew who’s son destroyed himself with such choices. And as the father (a quite distinguished looking man in the pastor’s words) looked down on his son lying in state in the coffin, the pastor heard him say something along the lines of “Well, son, you either couldn’t, or wouldn’t, do the right thing!”.
It’s still a mystery, but I think God’s in the position of a tormented parent who must often watch HIs children destroy themselves and others, and who “takes no delight in the death of the wicked.” That’s why He lets the devil be the “minister of His wrath” to quote John Calvin - God doesn’t want the job, so He lets the devil do it.
We’ve got free will (up to a point), but God knows what we’ll do with it. In that sense we may always be either one of those on whom He will have compassion, or one of those who will suffer His condemnation.
Any hypothetical dabbling in philosophical issues that doesn’t take our ultimate fates into account is just that - dabbling.