Actually along with JPII I say, “we entrust them to the arms of God” Faith is a gift, not everyone gets it apparently. The decision about their eternal life does not rest with me, but with Him. So far He has managed the world quite nicely without my (name removed by moderator)ut so I leave it there.
It seems to me that we ought to worry more about what falls under our own purview - that is our own lives here on earth rather than spend time worrying about where anyone else is going… If everyone took care of their own souls as best as they could - the doors to heaven would have to expand to hold us all. And many on earth would grow a faith from observing us.
My attitude is, I suppose, that when I stand for judgment, God won’t ask me about my neighbors, my friends or acquaintances – the conversation is going to focus on …me… and what I did or did not do - how I used His gifts and opportunities. Right now that’s enough for me to think about.