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Sir_Hubert
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I’m a healthy 42-year-old devout catholic man, who was married for a very short time and am now single. (Annulment 18 years ago.) I do not feel a calling to the married life again, and due to my station in life, along with financial obligations, find myself unable to seek out a religious community for at least another 3 to 4 years, where I have felt a strong calling. Age will become an issue to consider at that time. (I have done a fair amount of research over the last 15 years about this.)
My question is, has anyone else been in a similar situation, only to feel “outcast” from your local Parish/Diocese? The churches that surround me have wonderful programs/meetings for every stage of your life … except single by choice. Classes for expectant mothers, retreats for dads, “Life Teen” for kids, retreats for those considering the priesthood, singles outings for those looking for a mate, counseling for the separated/divorced/ widowed or those with “same sex attraction”, “young at heart” for the retired folks, and last year we started “Family Faith Formation” to help families work together towards educating their kids and themselves. Even the annual Parish Picnic is geared towards “Families only”. (Minimum ticket purchase is 2) I asked my local Pastor if any programs that existed for those who felt they were not called to married life or the religious life. He mentioned none that he was aware of.
I have had a very difficult time finding any spiritual guidance from the local priests to help me along my journey. I find myself depending on such things as the internet (solid catholic sites), EWTN, and of course the teachings of Our Holy Father and the Church. I’m am very thankful that my parents were very orthodox in my upbringing, and find myself turning to my family frequently when I seek out solid catholic discussion.
Am I alone?
In His Peace!
My question is, has anyone else been in a similar situation, only to feel “outcast” from your local Parish/Diocese? The churches that surround me have wonderful programs/meetings for every stage of your life … except single by choice. Classes for expectant mothers, retreats for dads, “Life Teen” for kids, retreats for those considering the priesthood, singles outings for those looking for a mate, counseling for the separated/divorced/ widowed or those with “same sex attraction”, “young at heart” for the retired folks, and last year we started “Family Faith Formation” to help families work together towards educating their kids and themselves. Even the annual Parish Picnic is geared towards “Families only”. (Minimum ticket purchase is 2) I asked my local Pastor if any programs that existed for those who felt they were not called to married life or the religious life. He mentioned none that he was aware of.
I have had a very difficult time finding any spiritual guidance from the local priests to help me along my journey. I find myself depending on such things as the internet (solid catholic sites), EWTN, and of course the teachings of Our Holy Father and the Church. I’m am very thankful that my parents were very orthodox in my upbringing, and find myself turning to my family frequently when I seek out solid catholic discussion.
Am I alone?
In His Peace!