I don’t know about Carmelite spirituality but I can tell you about Dominican spirituality.
The Four Pillars of Dominican life are:
- Prayer
- Study
- Community
- Apostolate
Prayer is one of the most important aspects of the Dominican brand of spirituality, with the Rosary being the most well known of all Dominican prayers. I would say the Rosary is a very important part of Dominican history and spirituality.
Study forms an extremely important part of Dominican life. If you don’t like to study, do not become a Dominican. As the Order of Preachers, Dominicans must be experts theologians, and to that end, they spend a great deal of their time reading works such as the Summa Theologica by St. Thomas Aquinas. Learning is perhaps the most prominent aspect of Dominican spirituality.
Obviously community occupies an important role in Dominican life because members of the Order live together and pray together.
Apostolate basically means the ministry or work you do for Christ. The major Dominican ministry is Preaching. They are the Order of Preachers, and spend a great deal of their time teaching and defending the faith.
Dominican spirituality is very scholastic. If you love learning, reading, writing, and defending or teaching the faith then the Dominican life would be perfect for you.