Don't know why i'm so pessimistic about dating?

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If you want a good woman, you will find her at daily Mass and Adoration. She’s too busy to be out looking for a man.
Or maybe the next time your out don’t just look at the blond in the tight outfit. See who else is there.
 
women in their 20’s- staying away from these types!! to fickle and have their head in the clouds
 
If you want a good woman, you will find her at daily Mass and Adoration. She’s too busy to be out looking for a man.
So a good woman that feels called to marriage is “too busy” to pursue her own vacation? What? I don’t get that.
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women in their 20’s- staying away from these types!! to fickle and have their head in the clouds
I don’t know if you realized this, but that comes across as quite nasty.

You yourself are barely in your 20’s. What age group are you looking in? Teens? :confused:
 
women in their 20’s- staying away from these types!! to fickle and have their head in the clouds
Wow! This is quite rude and just plain nasty! And that is coming from a women in her 20’s (albeit her late 20’s). Not all women have their head in the clouds or are fickle in this age range. Did you ever stop to think that maybe its not us but rather its YOU that’s the problem? I am just as frustrated as you are when it comes to dating. I always saw myself married with a few children already by the time I got to the age that I am now. Good Godly men are just as hard to find as good Godly women.
 
Did you ever stop to think that maybe its not us but rather its YOU that’s the problem?
I used to hear frequently (and still do) from my peer in their late teen and twenties (I’m twenty) that it was impossible to find suitable partners. No one was reasonable enough, pious enough, mature enough, and everyone suffered from being “all exactly the same”. It’s funny, that out of the billions of guys and gals out there, that [the general] YOU are the ‘different’ and ‘special’ one.

Truly, to complain about such an unfortunate, completely make-believe situation, you have to be lacking in one or all of the above yourself. How reasonable is it that you’re unique? That you’re a saint among sinners? the only one who doesn’t follow fads or secular “evils”?

Most of the people I talked to were genuinely sad that they hadn’t met anybody yet who had the same qualities as them. Most of these people were females.
What they needed to do (and some did! To their happiness) was quit being unreasonable and negative, and actually get out and meet people! Don’t expect them to fall into your lap! 😃

I was for a little while (18 years until I met my ‘bestie’) one of those ‘special’ ones. Although, I just considered myself sorta weird. Didn’t like TV, partying, the drinking and drugs scene, sexual deviancy, gossip, stupidity, immaturity…the list goes on. I’d just learned to live amongst this society, make friends in it, without taking part in the activities or deriving any joy from the sins that I witnessed, and be accepting. Don’t turn people away because they’re not up to your “standards”. Love them; they need it. Spread your charity; it’ll bring hearts to you.

(sorry in advance for typos)
 
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