Dressing modeslty in highschool

[jackiem]

Hi Flamingo,

I know this is probably not what you are expecting/want to hear but here is my opinion.

The more modestly you dress, the more you are turning these guys on. To finally see a girl who cares about being pure can be a massive turn on in this day and age when it is so rare. You have a very beautiful character and that is something very refreshing. And since these are teenage guys, the only way they know to talk to a girl is with crude language. They are testing you to see if deep down this angel is human (which in their minds equates to 'does this hot chick have any sexual feeling at all?) And then, it becomes a competition among men.

Keep your morals, the good thing is with age, men learn to keep their comments to themselves

CM

I have to agree with this. I have only been dressing modestly for a few years. That was probably one of the hardest things for me in my conversion. There could be a few other reasons for it, but I notice that now I get more attention from guys that I dress modestly. I think it’s important to be beauitful. I wear make up and will wear stylish clothes but I also will make sure I don’t have cleavage midriff or too much leg showing. I think a woman can be beautiful without showing those things. If I get attention, I just say thanks and move on. It’s true that for some you will get attention regardless of what you wear. Hopefully that helps. With pictures on facebook, I had someone post one that was sketchy poses that others were dong around me, I asked them to remove it and if there are bad comments I remove them or ask someone to.

I don’t know why young people think I girl wants to be called hot or sexy and not beautiful.