Lauriejean:
If you can’t find a parish in your area that isn’t afraid to actually teach what the church believes and not what they think “the spirit of Vatican II realllllly said” why can’t you start a parish that does… I mean Protestants do this all the time…
I am unsure if you are really serious, or just making a comment about the state of Protestantism and the vast numbers of denominations.
I will assume you are serious with your question
… from my knowledge (which is certainly far from official, so I hope those who may know better either confirm or correct my understanding) you have some options if you feel that your parish does not teach according to the official teachings of the Church.
First, discuss the issue with your priest. He may not be aware of your concerns or that misguided teaching is occuring in your parish. Likewise, your understanding of what is being taught in your parish may be incorrect. The priest, once he is aware of any infractions, has a duty to either justify the teaching as in line with official Church teaching, or if he knows what you tell him goes against official Church teaching, take steps to bring things back in line.
If a the priest does nothing, you have the right to take up the issue with your bishop. Again, the bishop has the obligation to either justify why the teaching going on in your parish is in fact in line with Churc teaching, or if the bishop determines it really is wrong, then he, like the priest, has the obligation to correct the misguided teaching going on in your parish. In fact, this is your bishop’s ultimate responsibility – to be a shepard to the flock and fight against any heresy.
Finally, if your bishop does nothing and cannot explain how the teachings going on are in line with the Church, then you do have the ability to take up the issue with Rome. I would hope it doesn’t get to this.
You also have the option of joining another parish in your area more in line with Church teaching. If you choose to do this, however, I believe it would be your obligation to inform the parish priest of the parish you are leaving as to your reasons why you are leaving. You don’t want the rest of the parish to suffer from misguided teaching and the priest may be unaware of the infractions.