Thanks for the replies… I’m Russian Catholic and my Bishop is the local Latin Ordinary and I was told by my Chancery that I’m not bound to Eastern calendar etc because I’m outside of territory of my church and V2 said something about that…
Regarding Ukrainian Catholic, I actually feel more at home in my Latin parish because I never really had an Eastern spirituality… I’d be interested I practicing it more in a parish of my rite, but I’d still want to also keep the Latin devotions and still go to the Latin parish other times. I asked some Eastern priests what I am supposed to do since I don’t have a parish of my rite, and they said I’m encouraged to attend another Eastern parish… I understand why and because Eastern Catholics have a right to their heritage, but in my situation its a struggle because of the spiritual reason, and also the parishes being very ethnic. You’d think that Ukrainian would be closer to Russian, but when everyone around you is of a particular nationality and you are not, it can be a distraction at a parish and I find it easier being in a Latin rite parish. I also grew up in North America and I only know a few Eastern Europeans. For these reasons and just because I’m so used to the Latin rite, its a struggle for me. You really feel the difference in nationality when everyone around you are of a particular nationality and you can’t relate as easily and don’t know people. Its sad but its a distraction. I wish it wasn’t like that. Also I’m used to things at my church that help me to pray and the emphasis on silence and various other customs…
I don’t know… I’ve had people encourage me to attend other Eastern rites believing this would be easier for me and a better fit, when its actually harder for me. I’m struggling to even not being bitter about being Eastern Catholic because I feel I didn’t choose it but am now being encouraged to practice it to the full. I could try it more if I had a parish of my rite, because that would be easier than another Eastern rite, and out of obedience to the Church… Also I do like the Eastern liturgy very much ( none of this comes from any dislike for the East) - but now, I worry about how I’m not doing what I’m encouraged to do even if its not under pain of sin. I like to do things that the Church encourages but I don’t know how to in my case. There is such a concern about Latinization but what happens if a person is drawn to those things and can’t transfer rites?