Editing my wardrobe

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So, I’ve have come to realize that I have too many clothes. In the scheme of things, since I can fit everything I own into five containers (not sure how big but they fit on a shelf in my room) I dotn have that many, but its hard to cram them all into said boxes. If I got rid of some of my more revealing clothing (like athletic shorts and tank tops, things like that)/I would have more room. However, my mom won’t let me. She would say something to the effect of how those clothes are perfectly fine and I’d better not try to dress like a Mormon or something (I’d feel note comfortable though) or become a nun. Ideas?
 
Obey your mother.

She isn’t forcing you to wear the clothes, only to keep them in the house that she owns. She’s well within her right.
 
One idea is the 39 hanger rule. I have the basic wardrobe written down. You limit the number of clothes in your wardrobe in the closet to how many you can hang on 39 hangers.
Emily Cho wrote a book in the 1980’s. You may still be able to find it in your local library. She uses the idea of choosing a core color for your wardrobe. For me, that color would be navy. Develop a professional wardrobe around that color.
I’ve seen it where you start with 3 pair of slacks in black, brown, and navy. Then add a sweater in a flattering color. I don’t remember the next steps.
The latest idea in fashion is the capsule wardrobe. This too is a way of minimizing how many clothes you have in your closet and drawers.
Living overseas, I had to travel by plane. The latest regulation limit passengers to one check on piece of luggage plus one carry one. That’s motivation for minimization.
Yes, you still need athletic wear to include a swimsuit. I wear loose yoga pants plus a t-shirt for working out plus good athletic shoes and socks. Most wardrobe plans don’t go into what’s needed to wear underneath. You do want excellent undergarments.
I may come back with later posting from personal notes with “minimal wardrobes.” based on capsules and/or the 39 hanger rule.

Where you are starting is an overabundance. You need to break it down to the 39 hangers, keeping only those items that work together. What do you like? What is your daily life like? Working in a factory, for instance, my wardrobe was blue jeans, t-shirts, 3 flannels shirts, something to wear on Sunday,. My teaching wardrobe, of course was different. When I worked in the factory, I kept my jeans in a laundry basket on my closet floor. I needed work boots for the factory, athletic shoes for running, and dress shoes for Mass. I taught swimming so I needed swimming suits plus sweat pants and sweat shirt to cover up.
 
DebCWill,

Keep in mind that the OP is still a child in her mother’s home. If her mother demands that she keeps the clothes, it dosn’t matter how she cuts it down.

However, this may be a better and more balanced approach than the OP has tried, so it might be worth a shot.
 
It’s been said that the average American wears 20% of their clothing 80% of the time.
What are your favorite clothes that you wear the most often?
This still comes back to what are your most frequent activities? If you run, you need proper shoes, socks, shorts. During Fall/winter you need to add a knit hat/gloves and long pants/tights, long sleeve shirt or light jacket. There’s one capsule. Summer time, you need a hat to protect from the sun (sub capsule). Swim Capsule: Swimsuit, cap, sweatpants, sweatshirt. flip flops, goggles, (sunglasses), swim towel.
That’s one way that you can go through the clothes. Make capsules as you pack them away. You choose the colors you want to coordinate together, that make you feel good.
If something seems to be missing, make a note of it.
There are 5 boxes. Make one of those an excess box.

Jeans/t-shirt/Flannel shirt=One example. What type of shoes do you have? Oxfords.
If you’re not comfortable with this look, try something different. Check pinterest for capsule ideas. Even using a tank as a lacey vest, depending on the material. Play around with the clothes you have for different looks.
Do you have a girl friend you can bring over? Sometimes having another pair of eyes helps. Make it a party. Like when friends get together and do each others hair.
 
She doesn’t have an issue with me cutting down my wardrobe, as long as I don’t do it too drastically. The problem is that she encourages me to wear immodest clothing (immodest in my opinion) and if I tried to get rid of it because it was too revealing she would not let me.
 
No, I don’t have any friends who I’m close enough to to bring over, I’m kind of a loner
 
I understand that. Try pinterest for some ideas.
Take a skirt, or a pair of slacks. Find 3 or 4 tops that you like with that skirt or pair of slacks. Maybe find a vest to mix in with it for a change of pace. The idea is to try to find pieces you like, that you can mix and match together in a variety of different combinations. I’m not good at tying or wearing scarves. You can even make it look like you have even more outfits by how you accessorizes.
Find the dominant color in what you already own. You can make that the core color of your wardrobe. It should be a neutral, like black, brown, or navy.
Perhaps you could start with a pair of slacks and a cardigan. Save the jacket for Church or other special occasion. A vest does tend to tie things together, and is usually enough in terms of today’s styles.
I’m pretty casual, so many times I just wear a short sleeve T-shirt over a long sleeve T-shirt plus blue jeans for every day wear.
Living in the Middle East, I liked the style the Indian wear. I had several Kimeez sets made to wear. (long tunics over slacks). for teaching.
Think about what style is comfortable for you. What I wore in WI where it is cold was obviously different than what I wear where the climate is warmer.
 
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