Engaged to a non-Catholic

[happymomoftwo]

You need to get your family to back off, in my opinion.

what you do is the business of you and your fiancee.

You shouldn’t have to deal with intrusion from either set of parents. It is hard enough to navigate the waters of an ecumical marriage without parental interference, however well meaning.

Good luck to you.


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[meggy11386]

beachieca,

I am not Catholic, and My advice to you is to not question yourself or your religion. Ask God what he has in store for you. What he wants you to do. Pray about everything. No matter how small. I know that you will find the answer. Don’t listen to anyone but God.

While you are waiting for you answer, don’t get discouraged. Just be faithful, and don’t get lost. That’s the worst thing you could do. Just relax and the answer will come to you. Listen to the Holy Spirit.

 

[happygal]

meggy11386:

beachieca,

I am not Catholic, and My advice to you is to not question yourself or your religion. Ask God what he has in store for you. What he wants you to do. Pray about everything. No matter how small. I know that you will find the answer. Don’t listen to anyone but God.

While you are waiting for you answer, don’t get discouraged. Just be faithful, and don’t get lost. That’s the worst thing you could do. Just relax and the answer will come to you. Listen to the Holy Spirit.

Amen…i agree with you…the answer should directly come from god and nobody else…if the relationship are given to you by God, there shouldn’t be anyone telling oneself that is wrong, else these pple will be telling you that god did not give you the best. Come on how can we judge our dearest lord giving??

 

[happygal]

exoflare:

Hmm. Your last post tells more about you than you are probably aware of… I’m guessing you didn’t learn a lot about the Catholic faith when you were young? It’s just that you seem to have a lot of misconceptions about very general things.

Well religion does at time play a role in our marriage, but that does nót mean you will give up a gift by God simply both are of different denomination. Have you ever pray the truth to be given by God? If yes, then his giving is the truth and not telling i rejected your gift because my partner is not a catholic. God is kind and give unfailing love to us. He is not give you something that is not the best to you. Seriously speaking i really do not understand why protestant and catholic cannot have a happy marriage, as for the case in my country, many protestant and catholic pple marry someone of different fate and are happy in life. I have a frez who marry a non-believer and he allows my frez to bring all his son by christianity fate…Thought his husband does not believe in christianity, yet that does not stop him from allowing his kids to become a christianity. The point is if a non-believer who does not believe about our God yet have that basic level of understanding, then i really do not see why as believer that we ought to process those grace and kind soul to see this simple truth given by god!!