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What would be the foundation of dealing with the mentally ill persons. How does this differ from what is happening now?
With what diagnosis? Borderline personality disorder? Bipolar? Schizoaffective? Psychosis? Organic brain syndrome?What would be the foundation of dealing with the mentally ill persons. How does this differ from what is happening now?
Yes, COMPASSION and knowledge. The more you know, the better you will be prepared to understand and help them.What would be the foundation of dealing with the mentally ill persons. How does this differ from what is happening now?
Mentally ill is very vague. I’m sure that you know people who are “mentally ill” and you don’t even know it.What would be the foundation of dealing with the mentally ill persons. How does this differ from what is happening now?
Excellent point I think I have been guilty of that in my heartfelt desire to help. It is too easy to overanalyze words which may make someone feel even.more stigmatized. THANK YOU! You have given me food for contemplation.I’d say treating them as people. I have had the experience of people looking at every thing I say as a symptom of an illness when I just wanted to have a normal conversation. Does depression or whatnot color the whole person or can you take what they say like anyone else?
Listen to them. They don’t need someone who will tell them things-- they need someone who will listen to them. You can lecture a mentally ill person, but they’ll have heard it all before. Understand their situation by listening to how it affects them-- do not assume you know everything.
I hate to say this, but for the sake of driving the point home, I feel that it’s necessary. The muslim community’s treatment of mentally ill persons is beyond the level of appalling. There is no limit to what you will be accused of; possessed by jinn, being a victim of black magic, weak in faith, stupid, foolish, ignorant, afflicted by Satan, etc. I know because I have been accused of all of the above, because I have depression, anxiety and episodes of psychosis.
It’s in spite of my religiousity-- not because of it. Still, muslims do not listen because, I believe, they don’t have the desire to. No one doubts that you can have issues with your heart, lungs, kidneys and so forth, so why is it impossible to believe that someone has a problem with their brain? it is just another organ.
So, to make a long story short, the most practical and simple thing to do is to not assume that you know everything about someone when you find out that he/she suffers from a mental illness. Do not falsely accuse, because your words can potentially have a more devastating impact on them than you may know.
Very much so. I’ve dealt with worse - dealing with an abusive situation and watching what I said be discounted because I was “mentally ill.”I’d say treating them as people. I have had the experience of people looking at every thing I say as a symptom of an illness when I just wanted to have a normal conversation. Does depression or whatnot color the whole person or can you take what they say like anyone else?
I have a different experience when psychotic. I need people to be brutally honest with me because I can’t trust my own senses. It is critically important that you don’t feed into my delusions or hallucinations. When I’m psychotic, I’m desperately trying to be sane, agreeing with my insanity is not helping.Listen to them. They don’t need someone who will tell them things-- they need someone who will listen to them. You can lecture a mentally ill person, but they’ll have heard it all before. Understand their situation by listening to how it affects them-- do not assume you know everything.
I hate to say this, but for the sake of driving the point home, I feel that it’s necessary. The muslim community’s treatment of mentally ill persons is beyond the level of appalling. There is no limit to what you will be accused of; possessed by jinn, being a victim of black magic, weak in faith, stupid, foolish, ignorant, afflicted by Satan, etc. I know because I have been accused of all of the above, because I have depression, anxiety and episodes of psychosis.
It’s in spite of my religiousity-- not because of it. Still, muslims do not listen because, I believe, they don’t have the desire to. No one doubts that you can have issues with your heart, lungs, kidneys and so forth, so why is it impossible to believe that someone has a problem with their brain? it is just another organ.
So, to make a long story short, the most practical and simple thing to do is to not assume that you know everything about someone when you find out that he/she suffers from a mental illness. Do not falsely accuse, because your words can potentially have a more devastating impact on them than you may know.
Aw, thanks for the thank you. I needed to hear something like that. When I saw this thread, I recalled a study that I read up on in AP Psychology. I forgot the names of the researchers and the date, but, it is a famous study and I’m sure anyone interest can find it. These researchers wanted to see if people in a mental hospital can distinguish a healthy person among their patients and sent some people to claim that they heard voices in their heads and act normally once admitted. Some of the results were astounding. Some of the other patients noticed that there wasn’t anything wrong with the volunteers in this experiment, but, the doctors and staff read illness into their behavior and they were given medicine and everything.Excellent point I think I have been guilty of that in my heartfelt desire to help. It is too easy to overanalyze words which may make someone feel even.more stigmatized. THANK YOU! You have given me food for contemplation.
What I try to do is give only the reality what is minimally necessary, in short, direct statements. But mostly, I give eye contact, time and listen, the basic human interactions.. But almost every professional who works with psychotics will agree, do not feed into the psychosis. At the same time, if you are going to challenge someone’s reality orientation, make very sure you are 100% correct.