Explaining Transubstantiation to younger children

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I’m talking about the 4-6 age group before they start their classes but are old enough to recognize that “something” is happening in Mass.

I’m trying my best but I am struggling with fumbling around and feeling foolish. So I am sure there are lots of good ideas out here. I don’t really expect them to “get it” like we hopefully do as adults. But I do want to instill a sense of reverance and importance. Also I want them to feel positive and to be happily looking forward to when they are old enough to receive Jesus in this way. It is very important to me that no matter how simple my explanation is that it still be very orthodox. I’d rather say too little than give some nice sounding answer that plants the wrong seeds. How have you heard it explained to children of this age group?
 
At this age, many are visual learners…so use coloring pages…
flash cards.
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Take them on a church tour…explain the tabernacle light to them and why its there.
If your church uses bells at the time of the elevation during the consecration explain what that means. Kids at that age love the sights and sounds of church, and that’s what makes them so easy to reach.

You don’t have to use big words either because that won’t help. But age appropriately this works! I even did that for my own sons who are now adults.👍
 
I’m talking about the 4-6 age group before they start their classes but are old enough to recognize that “something” is happening in Mass.

I’m trying my best but I am struggling with fumbling around and feeling foolish. So I am sure there are lots of good ideas out here. I don’t really expect them to “get it” like we hopefully do as adults. But I do want to instill a sense of reverance and importance. Also I want them to feel positive and to be happily looking forward to when they are old enough to receive Jesus in this way. It is very important to me that no matter how simple my explanation is that it still be very orthodox. I’d rather say too little than give some nice sounding answer that plants the wrong seeds. How have you heard it explained to children of this age group?
The outward appearance of bread and wine, look, smell, taste, remains the same but the inward substance becomes the Real and True Body and Blood of Jesus.
 
You wait until they have passed a basic university course in metaphysics. You don’t explain complex philosophical concepts to children.
Try admitting the fact that we don’t know how this is Jesus. But we believe.

Matthew
 
In my experience, young children “get it” just as easily, if not more easily, than adults. Children still get the concept that faith is evidence and that you don’t have to understand something for it to be true. They don’t understand most things…eventually the "why"s get them the same answer: I can’t explain it, honey. I just does.

Just tell them what happens, and when they ask “how does that happen?”, you just say, “it isn’t a machine you can take apart, so I can’t say. The Blessed Sacrament doesn’t look any different than it did when it was bread and wine. It doesn’t taste any different. But it has fully changed. But faith, I know it has. Jesus said it does. By having received Holy Communion all my life, I have come to know him, and I believe him. The Blessed Sacrament is Jesus, more real than I am standing here.”

You can also explain that over the course of your life, there have been many things that you have been told you will understand later, and that this has proved true. This is something that God is going to have to explain after we are made fit for Heaven. Until then, we can imagine ways it could happen, but in the end, we just have to believe that it is so, and find out by experience that it is so.
 
In my experience, young children “get it” just as easily, if not more easily, than adults.
👍 So true. Children are more open to understanding these mysteries than you think.

Remember the verse in Matthew about having faith like little children?
Young children don’t need complex explinations like adults do. the will believe if they see that you believe.

Children that age take your word about Santa Clause or the Tooth Fairy. I think that is more far fetched than any matter of faith.

I’ve always made my young children aware at Mass that Jesus is there with us, even if we can’t see Him. So, at a young age, they begin to understand that He is present.

If they know the basics:
God is our Father and creator.
God can do anything.
Jesus is God.
Therefore, Jesus can do anyting, even be present in the bread and wine.

Hope this helps a bit. Remember that the children are going to know if you are sincere or not in what you are telling them. Be open about your faith and let them see that.

God Bless
 
I just went through this with my 5 yo. I explained that at the consecration the bread & wine become the Body & Blood. Then I explained that while it looks the same to US, it looks different to God after consecration. That seemed to satisfy her.

I have to tell you though, she is giving me a workout on my apologetics- LOL
 
This is kind of an old thread, but maybe someone out there is ‘listening’ and can give me some feedback.

I’m currently addressing this with some young people who may or may not have been taught as children, and may or may not simply accept it. I’ve been looking around online for inspiration. This is an idea I had. I wonder if anyone can tell me if it’s off-base, and why. I’m thinking of approaching this as a literature teacher (which I am).

It seems to me that nothing in ‘real life’ is like transubstantiation, so there’s not ever going to be some ‘real-life’ analogy that will ‘work’ without at the same time ‘planting wrong seeds’ in people’s minds.

This made me ask whether there’s anything in fiction that is like transubstantiation. After all, if we can have C.S. Lewis giving us a lion who is a ‘type’ of Christ, why couldn’t other fiction writers have written a story that - wittingly or not - echoes transubstantiation? Transubstantiation really happens, just as redemption through Christ’s cross really happened. It’s not far-fetched to wonder if people made up stories that reflect their belief in transubstantiation much as Lewis made up a story based on Christ’s redemptive sacrifice.

I am sitting here wondering if fairy-tales about changelings - princes who were changed into frogs, for example - might have come out of some midieval imagination that was aware of the mystery of the externals looking one way, but the ‘reality’ being something else. It looks like a frog, hops like a frog, swims like a frog, but in fact, it’s a prince. Little kids have no problem entering into such fantasies, so it’s no wonder they have no problem entering into the mystery of transubstantiation. (My convert mother told me that her belief in fairies as a child helped her convert as an adult: she simply applied the child’s easy acceptance of unseen realities.)

There was a Disney film back in the 1960s, I think, in which a mother and daughter both make a wish at the same time: the mother wishes she had the daughter’s care-free life, and the daughter wishes she had the mother’s ‘freedom’ to do what she wanted. Because spoke the wish at the same time, they changed places. The daughter looked like the daughter, but in fact, she was the mother; the mother looked like the mother, but in fact, she was the daughter.

Maybe, with very little kids, the key is not to try to find something in external reality that makes a perfect analogy (a couple thousand years of trying hasn’t produced anything yet, and most of us have a deadline). Kids don’t know much about external reality anyway. Maybe with little kids, it’s enough to say, ‘You know those stories when the prince is turned into a frog? He’s really a prince, but everyone thinks he’s a frog because he looks like a frog. Well, those stories are based on what happens at Mass. When the priest says the words God gave him, the bread and wine turn into Jesus. It only looks like bread and wine, but God has told us that it’s really Jesus. The fairy-tales didn’t really happen, but at Mass, bread and wine really do become Jesus.’

I wonder what people think about this as a way of explaining transubstantiation to little kids. (I also wonder if I just came up with a PhD topic in the field of fairytales.)
 
I’m talking about the 4-6 age group before they start their classes but are old enough to recognize that “something” is happening in Mass.

I’m trying my best but I am struggling with fumbling around and feeling foolish. So I am sure there are lots of good ideas out here. I don’t really expect them to “get it” like we hopefully do as adults. But I do want to instill a sense of reverance and importance. Also I want them to feel positive and to be happily looking forward to when they are old enough to receive Jesus in this way. It is very important to me that no matter how simple my explanation is that it still be very orthodox. I’d rather say too little than give some nice sounding answer that plants the wrong seeds. How have you heard it explained to children of this age group?
There are several very good Catholic Childrens books. I have one but can’t locate it at the present time.

May I suggest “simply telling the truth… simply?”

Children Jesus Loves us so much that after he died and went back to heaven, He wanted to stay with us, so He did in Catholic Holy Communion. When you are older, you will have the opportunity to be with Jesus, who remains here on Earth for us, because He loves us so much!
 
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