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At home, my mother does not want to do any paper work with regards to bank statements, bills, letters for her husband’s business (dad’s) and hers.
She thinks she relies on me but is really lazy and ignorant. I have come back being away for over 3 months and then mum tells me to sort out the letters.
I told my parents why didn’t you open them and sort them out yourselves and I was angry at them. I told her you have time to go and see your friends or sit down with people or go to parties but when it comes to this, she just doesn’t want to do it.
Some letters were not even opened and the ones that were, weren’t even organised into piles. She calls me the secretary (another act of laziness and not interested) but I told her this is something that you have to do. Even though they don’t speak or read english well, I can see that but she doesn’t put any effort about any letters but when it comes to doing hair and looking good, she could read.
Mum is very disorganised, 1st spiritually which explains why. There is no order in her life.
She thinks that if being married, i will still have to do them but she is saying this because of laziness. I want to tell her that she has to take up the baton since i won’t be there for her always.
Can you help me on this
She thinks she relies on me but is really lazy and ignorant. I have come back being away for over 3 months and then mum tells me to sort out the letters.
I told my parents why didn’t you open them and sort them out yourselves and I was angry at them. I told her you have time to go and see your friends or sit down with people or go to parties but when it comes to this, she just doesn’t want to do it.
Some letters were not even opened and the ones that were, weren’t even organised into piles. She calls me the secretary (another act of laziness and not interested) but I told her this is something that you have to do. Even though they don’t speak or read english well, I can see that but she doesn’t put any effort about any letters but when it comes to doing hair and looking good, she could read.
Mum is very disorganised, 1st spiritually which explains why. There is no order in her life.
She thinks that if being married, i will still have to do them but she is saying this because of laziness. I want to tell her that she has to take up the baton since i won’t be there for her always.
Can you help me on this