Family Issues

[Tazgurl21]

Maybe ya’ll can give me some advice. Here is the problem there is alot of bad blood between me and my mom’s side of the family. It had all started the year my dad had passed away in 1997. We had moved back to Plainview in the summer of 1997 a few months after my dad’s death. She we were doing good at first until one of my uncle’s had started to pick fights with me and see i’m not the type of person that will take S**t from anyone. Then one day we were all at my grandma’s house just haing a cookout for her, that when my uncle told my grandma that i was hitting him and she knew he started it. she told my mom that I was nothing but a trouble maker and she neede to tell me to behave. I was like man i didn’t even start anything my mom was like you need to quit thats your uncle. i was like I don’t care he shouldn’t have started with me. Then one of my aunt’s was just like go home and don’t come back over until you know how to act right. My other uncle saw me walk out the house and pushed me on the graond and started hitting me I threw dirt in his eyes and punched him a a couple of times and took off. I was just defending myself. Two of my cousins came out of nowhere and jumped me but of course I fought them off. thats why we moved back over here to lubbock cuz my mom knew it just wasn’t working out for us over there.

It got worser when my grandma passed away 8 months ago. they got mad cuz my mom told them that we are not going to move back to Plainview. all they want is to run my mom’s life and take her money. they already ruined my mom’s credit history by cutting up her credit cards and losing her cell phone. Now she has a bad crdedit history cuz of them. They say its my fault cuz she doesn’t want to move back over there. there is nothing there for us we are happier here in Lubbock and they can’t see that. they are just a miserable family and can’t stand seeing others happy. They are trying to make our lives a living hell. I think the need some help or something what y’all thin?. My aunt that doesn’t consider me a niece went to my house yesterday unfortunatly i wasn’t home at the time. My mom was she just went by just to disrespect my mom and the house. then she told my mom that they were going to take my handicapped brother away is she didn’t get rid of our dogs. My brother isn’t allergic to dogs. Plus they wouldn’t know waht to do if he had seizure they will just llok at him and laugh then yell at him. :banghead:
sorry so long just had to get this out

 

[mercygate]

A lot of anger and pain here, but what’s the actual question? Is there a question.

 

[Tazgurl21]

Well just wanted to get some advice on what y’all think of the situation. See cuz really i’m a calm and cool person but its just them they get the bad side of me. I get along a whole lot better with my dad’s side of the family. Basically I’m trying to say is should I stay far away from my mom’s side of the family? or should i try to seek them help? which probably won’t do any good cuz they won’t change unless we are as miserable as they are. Which will not happen. They scared a priests out of a church over there in Plainview cuz they kept on going to him and badmouthing me he got tired of it and requeted that our bishop would assign him somewhere else. Cuz he told my brother about it just this past friday at a convocation cookout.

 

[Shorty22]

Dang alot of anger here. Tazgurl don’t know what to tell you. I think you should just stay away from them if its just going to lead to fighting all the time. Seek some help for yourself from a priest or someone else that will listen so it will you becom a better person. Maybe some of these other posters will give you better advice cuz i haven’t been in that kind of situation like you are in. pray to God for answer with the help of the Lord he’ll guide you throw this hard time. Don’t bother seeking help for your mom’s side of the family if it isn’t going to help out any.

 

[EsclavoDeCristo]

I would seek out a holy priest or nun and ask their advice. But first, pray and meditate about things. Then ask advice with specific questions. Don’t make a consuling session out of it.

God bless and prayers for you and your family!

 

[Tazgurl21]

Alright thanks I already went to go talk to a priest for advice I’m just gonna go with his advice and be the better person not lower myself to their standards. Cuz he knows how they are also he knows how rude they are. But then again i think its better for me just to stay away from them as much as possible.