“Those are pearls that were his eyes,
And all of him that doth remain
Hath undergone a sea change
Into something rich and strange…”
Shakespeare–my old religion–I don’t remember it very well but this passage describes a death at sea. My family relationships are undergoing a “sea change,” with the help of this prayer, and perhaps it is no coincidence that the image of death comes up as many deaths were not attended to properly, both recently, and probably in the distant past. I am forgiving my father, and talked to him without fear for the first time in (?) how many years. With my mother it’s harder, but I am praying. My father informed me that one of my English first cousins just got engaged (his much younger brother’s son, Paul.)
I need to specifically include my own immediate family (husband and son) even though we have decided on divorce, as of course, through Ian, my son, and for him, the family tree has a new branch and he of course, and also I, am connected with–old friends, as my husband’s family is Scottish/English/ Newfoundlander Irish, and there are riches of connections there to be made, as I have numerous relatives in Canada, my husband and I also may have enmity between us through our family trees, now joined in Ian.
So, also for Ian’s family tree, and for Ian.
I long to know more of my father’s family, as we were disconnected when he made the decision to move to the States. I know that somewhere in his ancestry there’s a pirate! I have probably heard only a millionth of the tales to be told. I pray that he forgives his mother. On my mother’s side there was a scandal, maybe that’s why all the animosity in her and in our lives.
Thank you, I will return to this Post again.
Praying.
