except for Belleville, I don’t believe I have ever been to a retreat center that could be used like a hotel. My favorite most life changing retreats were at the Sacred Heart Retreat Center in Youngstown, Ohio. another thread asks when was the first time you definitely “knew” God was real? This place is where I became aware for the first time of the reality and action of the Holy Spirit.
Went for several years on one-week directed retreat at the Jesuit Retreat House in Parma, Ohio during a period of great life changes, major decisions, you can’t beat Jesuits for spiritual direction at a time like that.
I love Lebh Shomea, in Sarita Texas, on the Kenedy Ranch (property donated to the Oblates of Mary Immaculate by the family), between Corpus Christi and Brownsville. While you can meet with a spiritual director, this is the place for silence, contemplation, a desert experience of a night, weekend, week or longer. Their library is outstanding. There is a large hacienda with rooms, and individual hermitages for longer stays, and resident hermits on site. It is also a nature preserve.
My new favorite is the newly completed Benedictine Monastery of the Good Shepherd in Starr County, Texas. The main building with sisterss’ residence and chapel has been completed, and when finished this will be the finest retreat center in the Rio Grande Valley.