Question for people who are more familiar with Judaism than I.
Is it common/traditional for people to decorate for Hannuka, and to “display” mennorahs?
Is that tradition or a cultural response to Christmas lights, symbols etc.
My faith also has a winter holy day, and we have appropriate symbols in our home, but I would never consider making a “display” to show publicly, it’s not how we do things. Nor do I expect folks of other faiths to acknowledge my holy day. Some people, afraid I might be offended if they don’t include my religious holy day in their season’s greetings, say “Happy Solstice!” and I know they mean well and appreciate the sentiment, but it’s really not fitting, if that makes sense.
Winter Solstice isn’t a happy or festive event, it’s holy, extremely important to us but it’s not a time of joyful feasting, gift giving etc.
Some people celebrate Yule, which is festive with gifts and feasts.
Maybe what I’m trying to say is that not all holy days that occur at this time of year are another religion’s version of Christmas.
I don’t need or want some public nod to my holy day to somehow show that I’m not left out of the seasonal festivities. No one is obligated to observe my holy day just to make nice.
In some ways (and this may be just me being petty) I would find it more offensive for there to be Suns displayed in shop widows, and big light up Suns on the city square next to Santa, a Nativity scene, and a mennorah. It would feel like a mockery. I wouldn’t feel honored, I would feel like someone was just doing it out of some idea that they have to appease me or I’d have a little tantrum.
That’s how I feel about the whole “I’m going to be mad if you don’t wish me Merry Christmas” thing that some people get worked up over. What does it prove or show if I say Merry Christmas, just so you won’t go off on me about the reason for the season?
If someone forces a smile and says through gritted teeth “Have a solemn Solstice” I don’t feel as if I’ve won some victory for my side.
I’ve often wondered if Jews feel the same about public Hannuka symbols.