First Spiritual Direction appointment

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I’ve made an appointment for spiritual direction this Friday and I am kind of nervous! I am looking into this process with the hope of being able to really work on some of my tendencies towards certain sins, and just for an increase in my faith and resolve. Do any of you have any suggestions for me, who have gone through or are going through this process?
Should I do an examination of conscience beforehand, as this is with a Priest? Do you usually have confession with your spiritual director?
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I’m really excited for you! July 11, 2001 was my first day and within 15 minutes it already changed my life. Just happens Fr. Pecht was brilliant, kind, incredibly patient, and knowledgeable not only about theological things but about psychology. First thing he did was sit knees-to-knees with me and just gaze at me with the most gentle facial expression I’d ever seen. After a bit he said, “would you like to pray together?” I said, “sure,” and he already had two Bibles opened to the same page. We took turns reading alternate paragraphs. Then we sat for another minute and he finally said, “is there anything you would like to know?” I said, "yes, father, why is the world so crazy? Even the doctors can’t understand a thing I say and blah blah blah … " He listened calmly, smiled, then got out a piece of paper and explained the whole thing in a wonderful way that totally made sense. Each session, he gave me the notes he wrote while explaining things. I kept them in a notebook.

For you, first and foremost, you don’t “need” to take anything with you. He will guide you.

That said, I don’t see the harm in doing an examination of conscience, though. You might even think about your spiritual goals if you have any – such as particular virtues you want to develop, or situations you find difficult, or dreams you have. You can even type this stuff up and take it with you. If you use it, fine. If he has another plan, fine.

I hope you can get back to this thread to report on how it went!

Alan
 
I’m really excited for you! July 11, 2001 was my first day and within 15 minutes it already changed my life. Just happens Fr. Pecht was brilliant, kind, incredibly patient, and knowledgeable not only about theological things but about psychology. First thing he did was sit knees-to-knees with me and just gaze at me with the most gentle facial expression I’d ever seen. After a bit he said, “would you like to pray together?” I said, “sure,” and he already had two Bibles opened to the same page. We took turns reading alternate paragraphs. Then we sat for another minute and he finally said, “is there anything you would like to know?” I said, "yes, father, why is the world so crazy? Even the doctors can’t understand a thing I say and blah blah blah … " He listened calmly, smiled, then got out a piece of paper and explained the whole thing in a wonderful way that totally made sense. Each session, he gave me the notes he wrote while explaining things. I kept them in a notebook.

For you, first and foremost, you don’t “need” to take anything with you. He will guide you.

That said, I don’t see the harm in doing an examination of conscience, though. You might even think about your spiritual goals if you have any – such as particular virtues you want to develop, or situations you find difficult, or dreams you have. You can even type this stuff up and take it with you. If you use it, fine. If he has another plan, fine.

I hope you can get back to this thread to report on how it went!

Alan
Hey Alan…well I had my first appointment with the priest today…and it was an amazing experience. He really did guide me like you said, and was very respectful of me, my concerns, and everything. He gave me a lot of practical advice and wants to follow up with me in 2 weeks. It looks like I’ll be seeing him biweekly until further notice.
The session culminated in making a confession, after which I felt SO much peace. I decided to go to Mass afterwards, where the priest there led everyone in the Litany of the Sacred Heart in lieu of the homily. Such a wonderful blessed day…I am so grateful to God!
 
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