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Orleans_Attny
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Last weekend I attended my first TLM at Blessed Sacrament Catholic Church in Honolulu. Bishop Silva was the celebrant.
For the benefit of others who are like me (had only attended mass in the Ordinary Form), I thought I’d share my initial observations:
Pax,
OA
For the benefit of others who are like me (had only attended mass in the Ordinary Form), I thought I’d share my initial observations:
- People are friendly and welcoming. This isn’t a private club and they’re happy to have newbies.
- I expected the church to be filled with a TON of old foks that predated Vatican II. There were a ton of older folks, but no higher a percentage than you’d find at any mass (maybe less). I was surprised by the large number of families and children.
- People dress nicer to come to Church (I’m a convert from a Protestant background, so “Church Clothes” is something natural for me). I’m not really judgmental about how people dress at church - I’m just happy they’re there - but I can’t help but notice when someone walks by in Jeans and a Ramones T-Shirt.
- I expected all women to wear a head covering. About 70% did. For the most part the under 35 women, teens, and children didn’t.
- There were about 120 folks at the mass.
- Surprised that there was no use of incense and no asperges, nor chant. And the use of bells differed from what I expected after reading the missal.
- Since the mass was foreign to me, it was for me to keep up with where the Bishop was in the liturgy. The mass was - obviously - said in Latin, but following tradition the Bishop re-read the Gospel reading in English before he said his homily, which was also in English.
- I felt that the TLM was a nice reminder of where the focus of the mass should be. Unlike mass in the ordinary form the personality of the celebrant - and his skill as a performer - has nothing to do with one’s ability to enjoy the mass.
- At the same time, I felt that my 3 boys who are all under the age of 10 would have torn that Church to the ground after about 15 minutes. (Not literally). Let’s face it - though you’re not there to be entertained, one can’t avoid the fact that kneeling for an hour while the celebrant prays in a language you don’t understand can be a bit . . . boring. It would take my guys some time to get used to the TLM - especially my oldest who really likes Mass. I also noticed that A LOT of parents were up and town with their small children throughout the mass.
- Interesting aside: I saw a family that I knew who had elementary aged children (as I do). I’ve been looking for a good solid Catholic school, and I asked where they sent their children. They responded that they home-schooled their kids (that’s not too surprising), but then they added that they don’t know of a single family that attends the TLM at that parish that DIDN’T home-school their children. I found that last part a bit surprising.
Pax,
OA