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Prodigal_Son
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In my few months on this forum, I have seen far too much simpletonism. This is a word I coined, meaning roughly: the belief that all possible information proves your point. Nothing is that simple. To every point, there is a counterpoint – and sometimes your “opponent” makes a valid point.
When your opponent makes a valid point, you should:

When your opponent makes a valid point, you should not:
(And Christians: remember Paul’s admonition that we are to be “the aroma of Christ” to unbelievers. Have you marinated in the Word lately?)
When your opponent makes a valid point, you should:
- Acknowledge the point, even compliment them.
- If it is not crucial to the argument, explain why it is not crucial.
- If it is crucial to the argument, either a) try to defeat their point, or b) admit that you have no better argument.

When your opponent makes a valid point, you should not:
- Change the subject, without acknowledging what they said.
- Display your own ignorance, by pretending their point was trivial and/or mocking them
- Ignore the fact that another person spoke, and keep spouting off your own monologic viewpoints (I just made up the word “monologic” as well).
(And Christians: remember Paul’s admonition that we are to be “the aroma of Christ” to unbelievers. Have you marinated in the Word lately?)