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benedictgal
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Just one last word on the points you made. Inasmuch as I regret not knowing the relationship between you and your Metropolitan, it is more respectful to refer to him by Archbishop (Last Name) in forums such as this. We may not be as fortunate as you to have a close relationship with our Ordinaries/Metropolitans, but, since this is a somewhat public forum, the norm of etiquette would be to refer to him as Archbishop Brunett. Now, I’m close to my PV (parochial vicar), but, when I make references to him with others, I refer to him as Fr. Last Name. I have a couple of Paulist priest friends who like to be called simply by their first names among friends; however, in a public setting, it’s always Frs. Last Name. Protocol calls for that. Among friends and in an intimate setting, informality works; however, in public, it’s better to retain the formal.You have no idea what my family or parish’s relationship is with the Archbishop so maybe YOU need to tone it down a bit and stop being so condescending. He prefers the informal, especially when dealing with the parish children. “Archbishop Alex” is a little less “scary” and more “accessible” to some kids who have never dealt with him before or have not had many cathedral experiences. Frankly, I have called him Most Reverend Father, Archbishop Brunett, Father Alex, Archbishop Alex…depends on the situation, really. I am not here to debate what my priest, parish or children/family call our Archbishop. Frankly, that is between our parish/children/priest and the Archbishop and is not really a matter for your concern. I am here to defend him and his Archdiocese. I am not defending a few select priests who seem to think you should stand during consecration. That is a matter to take up with the Archbishop. How can he help the lay people if he doesn’t know??? Again…just so everyone understands, I am defending the statement made by salvo1:
BUT…you really shouldn’t concern yourself about what my children/family/parish calls him in an informal setting or any setting for that matter. It really, respectfully, is none of your business, considering you know nothing of my family or our Archbishop and what his request/preferences are.
Now back to our regularly scheduled program…
I just wanted to clarify that with you so that you won’t think that I am merely shooting from the hip.