This is a wonderful point, not just for Franciscan poverty but I think for the whole idea of Catholics making sacrifice. It is easy to focus on only the material (of course, this is an important detachment to make!) and lose the purpose, which is a detachment from ALL that is not God. I think many people fast, make holy hours of adoration, etc. (which are wonderful things) without letting these penances do their work, expanding the spiritual life, the poverty within.
I am a diocesan seminarian and not a religious, but I believe that the heart of a religious is so important for all disciples of Christ to strive for. I feel that a huge part of spiritual poverty is giving up one’s reputation, one’s pride (what a challenge!) Giving away all my excess clothing, selling movies, CDs, etc. and giving to the poor is one thing, but letting go of my reputation, what others think of me? This is a very difficult poverty. But I think this is a big part of St. Francis’ charism. He not only detached from all physical possessions, but he let go of his reputation. And he was thought by many to be a fool. Francis got to the point where, as long as God was being glorified by his life and in the lives of those around him, he had no concern for his own reputation. “He must increase, I must decrease” is an essential part of true spiritual poverty.
It is truly amazing how, the deeper one goes into his spiritual life, receiving grace and shedding sinful ways, the more he realizes how far from perfection he is. By the grace of God, may we all strive for this perfection.
I agree with the original poster (what a nice, non-confrontational topic

) that it is so important not to stay in the material world, but through material sacrifice and poverty we may move more and more deeply into the mystery of the Perfect One.
In Christ and Mary,
Frank