Friends that are gay and lesbian

[SandyK]

Thank you. That is exactly what I will do. I have been confused and upset. I also realized I can’t “hang out” with gay or lesbian people as friends. I don’t judge them, but it conflicts with my own beliefs and I have not been myself since being around them.

There grandaughter is not my responsibility and she is a troubled girl. The gay guy just wanted money. It was a mess and I have been feeling like I’m living in two different worlds–the world of my catholic faith and there world. I had to give up one world and it wasn’t going to be the catholic church.

Thank you.

SandyK

 

[Verisimilitude]

They are trying to get me in the middle of their problems with the grandaughter and her father who is on heroin and the mother has problems. They are in the middle of a custody battle right now. The 15 year old girl is all messed up and I doubt that is her fault. I left her alone in my house for 5 minutes and found her going through my jewelry box. The lesbians got angry with me because I cut my hair short and said I liked your hair the other way. They tell me to wear sterling silver jewelry and not gold and to dress more fashionable. They are trouble and are trying to get me involved with this kid. This is not a terrible case of homophobia–it’s a terrible case of catching them in lies and they could perhaps hurt me. They are pretty rough. I can’t go into it all. I’m getting away from them because of drugs as well and the gay guy has problems. He is HIV-positive and said if he got mad enough, he would cut himself and put his blood on somebody! Sounds like great people right? Duh?
SandyK

Friendship goes two ways and yours with them is on a one-way street. Get off their highway by simply saying you will not walk that path. If they ask why tell them and say they are invited to follow you on yours. Then leave.