This is something I’ve been thinking about more, as a friend of mine recently told me they are trans.
I’ll be honest, I don’t know what to think. From what they’ve told me, the dysphoria they feel can get…really really intense. It’s like wearing two left shoes. It feels wrong. Except instead of shoes it’s their entire body. I can’t do much for my friend except send them encouragement.
The Church, historically, hasn’t done the best job of administering the the LGBT community. Trans people also have dicey relations with the community as well AFAIK. It seems like a very lonely and isolating existence to me.
So I guess when it comes down to it I believe what the Church teaches on gender and sex, but I think that the way it’s handled/been handled has been a bit tone deaf or coming from a place of misunderstanding. I don’t have a good answer on how to fix that. I don’t think anyone does, really.
Side note, and this might just be my personal experience, but while I think that gender and sex are pretty binary, I really dislike a lot of assumptions that come with that line of thinking. I’m not a man, and I don’t fit what I’ve called the Western definition of a man at all. I’m not muscular or athletic or even that outdoorsy, but there’s a vocal minority of my family’s friends who take a weird amount of issue with the fact that my idea of a good evening is spent inside wrapped in a blanket drawing. It’s too effeminate for their tastes apparently. My siblings get some comments like that too.
So I definitely agree with the modern push against gender roles and stereotypes like that, because it’s honestly annoying, and I imagine for some people it’s a lot worse than being occasionally bothered about how you spend your free time.
Edited for readability. Sorry.