Getting married advice

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I am getting married in exactly a year. I had a long battle with anxiety over it that was half spiritual attack, half nerves. My fiance and I were talking and he mentioned how past hurts were making me terrified of the amount of commitment and that I was mentally wired to just run, even if it destroyed myself, to avoid the work and potential pain ahead of having to strive through life. Everything just clicked then. I’m a nervous person and I have always over analyzed everything, but since then, I haven’t even had a panic attack. It’s been three months since I had one and I’m so proud of that, as is he. We are more prepared than ever to take this step. Is there any advice married couples would have, other than striving to love God and each other?
 
Pray the rosary everyday for your spouse.

When you get into an argument or your husband hurts your feelings take the time to cool down and pray for him before talking it over.

Follow NFP even when it’s difficult or frustrating. Sin will only hurt your relationship.
 
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other than striving to love God and each other?
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In marriage, money woes can create a tremendous amount of anxiety and could lead to divorce.

Live modestly and below your means. Buy only what u need and never to impress. Never own more than one house.

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