I never thought of the Novena to St Therese as being superstitious. After all, she herself said, “I will let fall from heaven … a shower of roses.” And many years ago, I received an actual rose. I had been praying the novena, and had gone to the ballroom for break, at the restaurant I worked at. A young couple were setting up vases with roses and baby’s breath for a wedding rehearsal dinner that night. I chatted briefly with them, complimenting on the lovely displays, then rested my head in my arms for the remainder of my break. They finished their vases, and had a few roses with shorter broken stems left. The young woman came over to me saying “Excuse me, would you like a rose?” I lifted my head to see her outstretched hand , holding the fragrant blossom inches away. I took it and thanked her.
It wasn’t until I had carefully stored my flower in the walk-in refrigerator (as I thought the heat of the kitchen would wilt it), wrapped in a wet paper towel and plastic wrap, to keep it hydrated, that it sunk in to me the significance and timing. It was the very last day of the novena, and the Little Flower had sent me an actual rose. My prayer was not answered in the way I expected, but it was nevertheless answered. It was also the Feast of Our Lady of Mount Carmel. It seemed so fitting to receive an actual rose.
The rose isn’t always a physical rose, often it is symbolic; an image, a word, an item containing a rose in/on it. The rose just might be the grace of a favor being answered. The Bible is full of examples where God has given physical signs. We shouldn’t ask for specific signs. For example, we shouldn’t dictate that Terese should send a specific type of rose, but let her choose the rose God intends for us, as a sign He will answer our petition. Most people ask for red roses, as that is the color Terese is often shown holding in her arms.
It could border on superstition to place too much emphasis on the receipt of the rose, and to specify that the rose should be given in a specific manner, and of a specific type. Asking for some extremely rare rose from some remote location, for example. There are a few threads on CAF, that have stories of roses from Terese, that individuals have received from the novena. Some are quite interesting.