Gift for recovering alcoholic?

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Hello all. My sister has recently admitted to her alcohol addiction. She is a cradle Catholic who has been distanced from the Church many years (as I was). I know Catholism can help her.

Is there a simple gift (book) I could give her to get her closer to the faith?

Please, I love him, but no Scott Hahn. I am talking almost comic book level.

Anything?

Even if you don’t have an idea, please remember her in your prayers. She is 3 weeks sober and doing well.

Bless you!
 
I would start by giving her an icon…of Christ or Mary (if she is closer to the Blessed Mother). This is something visual that she can look at and that can provide comfort (especially when those moments occur when she feels tempted toward alcohol).

The small book “My Daily Bread” is a good spiritual classic. Each chapter is only a couple of pages. The smallness of it’s size is great because it doesn’t look overwhelming yet it is full of spiritual richness. It isn’t comic book level but you might be surprised to find now that she is sober, she may be reaching for something with meaning to fill the void that alcohol has left.

Congratulations to your sister on her 3 weeks of sobriety.
:clapping:
 
give her a dummie’s guide to Catholcism. It is funny and easy to read. Also a nice satue of Mary is always nice
 
I like all of Fr. Stravinskas’s books *Catholic Answers. *They’re easy to read, very informative, and very orthodox.
 
You might just try getting something from AA. There are many spiritual lite books that will lead her back to God from that group – at least it worked for me as one who loves the drunks.

Getting into Alanon might also be a good choice. while it is mostly spouses, you might feel better able to handle the ups and downs of the first year of sobriety – it is a very tough year. The alcoholic has many emotions to face and as well dealing with reality unmedicate for the first time in years.

I would also think about getting her some kind of jewelry that is of a promise kind thing – like a dove or a butterfly. That might giver her incentive to continue on days when doubts creep in.

My husband has been sober for almost 25 years – when we met he had about six weeks of sobriety. Hard to believe we have known each other that long.
 
Although I am not an alcholic, one thing I am so glad I have is a cross…a nice cross would be wonderful.

~ Kathy ~
 
It is so encouraging that you are supporting your sister in her sobriety! God Bless You! I am a nurse who works with those in the process of recovery. Whether she’s gone through a formal program or attempted this on her own, the best chance of continued sobriety is an approach that is multifaceted. From a spiritual point of view, there is a priest, named Fr. Martin(now retired,also in recovery) whose tapes I believe are still available.Might do a web search to find out how to get his materials. He is excellent in talking from a spiritual point of view. I also reccommend the intercession of St. Pio. If she’s not already in counseling, I suggest this for a time being.There’s so much I could say about this aspect of recovery.I’d be happy to discuss this with you. Lastly,may I add that there have been so many recent discoveries in the area of brain chemical alteration due to long term alcohol use, that there currently are many options available to aid one in maintaining abstinence that wern’t available years ago. For example, levels of certain neurochemicals are depleted with long standing drinking and when a person quits there is a physical response. People often complain of insomnia and anxious feelings and this triggers the cravings for drinking that often lead to relapses. There is a new medication on the market called Campral that works by restoring these levels of neurochemicals and reducing and eliminating the cravings. It’s another tool to help someone who is sincerely wanting to be sober and struggling with the cravings. I hope this is information you can use. If I can be of any help, let me know.
 
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