Gift of Tears

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The gift of tears actually refers to compunction and crying over our sins. In the 1962 Roman Missal there are special prayers that a priest can use during Mass to pray for the gift of tears. They are as follows:
Collect
Almighty and most merciful God, who, to quench the thirst of Thy people, didst draw a fountain of living water out of a rock, draw from our stony hearts tears of compunction, that we may be able to mourn for our sins and win forgiveness for them by Thy mercy. Through our Lord Jesus Christ…
Secret
O Lord God, in Thy mercy look down on the offerings which we make to Thy divine Majesty for our sins, and draw from our eyes such floods of tears as may quench the burning flames which we deserve. Through our Lord Jesus Christ…
Postcommunion
Mercifully pour into our hearts, O Lord God, the grace of the Holy Ghost, which, by sighs and tears, may wash away the stains of our sins and obtain for us, by Thy goodness, the forgiveness which we desire. Through our Lord… in the unity of the same…
 
Never.

I have never experience it before, but many times after, I receive the Eucharist. To the point that I at one point got a little spoiled. Well, it was happening so frequently, I thought that was going to be the way, but then for several times it did not happened. So, I asked Our Lord where was He and if I was doing something wrong. I told Him that if I was doing something wrong to fix it. I did not want to be distant from Him. I told Him that I give Him my will and I want my will to be His will so He could fix whatever and to make me aware always of what I need to rectify and to help me to do so. I experience it here and there after I receive the Eucharist and that’s okay and it’s actually good.

I did experience it one day after Confession. There I was walking home one beautiful spring day, it was a Saturday. The tears of joy just started pouring out and inside it felt as though the Holy Spirit was caressing my heart. I got really embarrassed when I was approaching a home where on the front yard was a father playing with his children. I tried to wipe the tears away and get it together before I got closer so I slowed down my walk. It was all good, but, whao, it is beautiful and unforgettable.

It also happened to me one day at church that I smelled what people describe as lilac but is not really. That name will due but, I would also add that it is kind of like a mixture of flowers like and it is the soul that enjoys the aroma. It’s really nice. How it happened was that, well, there I was in front of the altar, it wasn’t even on the chapel where the Eucharist is, and I was praying and sharing with Our Lord. Then, I smelled this beautiful smell surrounding me and I looked around a little and disregarded it and went back to what I was doing and the smell got stronger and stronger until I could not ignore it. So, I got up from the bench to see if there were flowers around. I thought, this could not be really happening and I wanted to confirm it. So, I walked around the Cathedral the main section to see if there were any flowers - there were none. Then I went to the section where Mass is given at noon ( I don’t know what it is called) and I approached the altar. There, there was a bunch of white roses the ones that are big and do not have any smell really. But, I still got closer and smelled them just to make sure and they did not have an aroma. I thought, huh.

Then, an extraordinary thing happened. I went back to work and to my office which I shared with two ladies who were allergic to perfume. I started my work and soon after I was once again surrounded by that beautiful smell. I couldn’t believe it. I looked down the window to see if maybe there were flowers on the ground floor that someone may have planted and I looked around and nothing. Then, I asked the ladies in my office if they smelled that smell and they asked what smell. I asked them if they were wearing perfume and they told me that they were allergic. Amazing and beautiful! It’s really nice. It was away of confirming it - as it to say - where are the flowers now?

**I don’t know why any of these things happen though. **

Peace
They are God’s special gifts to us, so many times when we are in need of a spiritual boost or when there is going to be bad new coming, these gifts help strengthen us for the coming time of trial.
 
They are God’s special gifts to us, so many times when we are in need of a spiritual boost or when there is going to be bad new coming, these gifts help strengthen us for the coming time of trial.
Hello lakotak,

This applies to me 100%. After the beautiful experiences with the tears and the heavenly aroma my world was turned upside down. I was not expecting any drastic changes in my life and considered myself pretty established and settled. I was working on my goals and had my plans then there was a huge earthquake in my life that has brought a lot of suffering and pain. To make it worst it has deprived me of attending Mass regularly. The earthquake is starting to settle but I know that I will always suffer seismic rumblings. Yes, those experiences can be consoling, but what has given me strength to endure is Our Lord Jesus and Our Blessed Mother Mary.

I checked in the CCC, New Advent and the Vatican website for any Church explanation of the tears of joy and the aroma and found none. Do you know of any?

Peace
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Just as a side general note; these tears are not tears of happiness which we sometimes experience when we are happy.
 
It happens to me at every Mass I attend and I have no idea what it is or what it means. It is a joyful feeling of release. I have never thought of it as a gift, although some Charismatics I know do refer to it as a gift of the Spirit. I think it is possibly an awareness of God’s love for us all - not me in particular, but everyone. I do not question it, it is very precious to me and i have never discussed it before this. It has been happening since i was confirmed.
 
It happens to me at every Mass I attend and I have no idea what it is or what it means. It is a joyful feeling of release. I have never thought of it as a gift, although some Charismatics I know do refer to it as a gift of the Spirit. I think it is possibly an awareness of God’s love for us all - not me in particular, but everyone. I do not question it, it is very precious to me and i have never discussed it before this. It has been happening since i was confirmed.
These tears are a special gift of God’s intimacy with us. They can be cleansing, comforting or strengthening. Enjoy his special intimacy with you and thank Him for it.
 
Thank you lakotak, they are very precious and Mass would not be the same without them for me. I just accept it without questioning. It has also occasionally happened to me when i look at another person although this is rare and it is never someone i know. I believe that it is showing me in a very small way, the preciousness of each and every life - as M. Teresa called it seeing Jesus in the poorest of the poor. Or at any rate, that has been the effect it has had on me.
 
one of my favorite songs is “Jesus Lamb of God, You take away the sins of the world, Have mercy on us”, and one time I just started crying for no reason…I don’t even know if I was old enough to receive Communion, but this song touches my heart each time at Mass.
 
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